Ainsleigh Posted July 20, 2014 Posted July 20, 2014 Ever since grade nine a guy named Steve has had a huge crush on me. Everyone in my family and his think we will get married... We have been bestfriends for so long i think it would be wierd to even be in a relationship with him. Since grade nine ive had other boyfriends and currently am seeing someone. Ive had sex with this guy and we hangout a fair bit. My whole friend group sort of hangs out with us, including Steve. Resently Steve has been getting rather pushy with me seeing this other guy. If i say im going to hang out with him i get a lecture. The guy im seeing is super nice to me and my friends, hes outgoing and all so i dont understand why im being lectured. Is it jealousy, possession, any ideas Also i am sorry if this is hard to read from bad punctuation if you have any questions for further detail please ask! Im having a party soon and want both to come and be happy. Thankyou!
I am Bud Posted July 20, 2014 Posted July 20, 2014 Dear Ainsleigh I think that you have answered you own question when it comes to Steve. You said that since grade nine he has had a huge crush on you so it goes without saying that he does not want you to hang out with this other guy. Trying to make everyone happy is not going to make you happy. So do not worry about what both of your families think because it will be up to you decide whom you want to marry in the future. The only choice that matters here is yours and if you think of Steve only as a friend then that is absolutely fine. It is what it is. Be true to yourself and do what is right for you. All the best - Bud.
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