Orije Posted July 20, 2014 Posted July 20, 2014 Hello guys, I am here to ask a few questions on this matter. To start off I'm 19 and my girlfriend is 18 and we have been in a relationship for 2 months now. I am going to be a sophmore in college and she will be beginning college this year. Over the past 2 months me and my girlfriend have been going out things have been great! The one thing that gets to me is that she says when she gets to college that she will go to parties at her school and at other schools with friends. This worries me a bit because I don't know how well of a drinker she is and I heard past stories of her playing truth or dare and doing crazy things, but besides the point. Should I sit her down sometime and have a heart to heart conversation about this matter? Like I'm fine with her going to parties, but I don't want her to drink to the point that she is drunk or guys take advantage of her since she is a very beautiful girl. I will never cheat on her because i avoid parties and drinking unless I'm around her, but I'm not too sure about her side because if something does happen, I wouldn't know or could do anything about it. I don't want to control her life, but this does get to me. Also her college is 45 minutes away from me. Any advice or help guys? Thanks! 1
PogoStick Posted July 20, 2014 Posted July 20, 2014 Any advice or help guys? Thanks! She will go to parties. She will get drunk. Sooner or later she will hookup with a random guy. Your relationship will not last, so agree to end it once you return to school. 2
Mcscooter Posted July 20, 2014 Posted July 20, 2014 It's college let her do her own thing. honestly yeah it sucks. but if she really loves you she'll stick committed to you and just be with you. she's just curious to explore. it's human nature. we all want to explore at one point my best advice recommended is to do the same. than you'll understand her more. Do what's best for the relationship now. before you become too attached. 1
d0nnivain Posted July 21, 2014 Posted July 21, 2014 Prepare yourself for the end of your relationship. She's got a whole new world opening up to her & a BF 45 minutes away isn't going to fit well into that picture. Sorry.
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