marcjb Posted July 22, 2014 Posted July 22, 2014 It depends, OP. Does he have many other female friends? If yes, maybe he just wanted to add her to his list of female friends. You mean he would want to add to his list of possible options / backup plans.
KatZee Posted July 22, 2014 Posted July 22, 2014 I also don't think this was a case of, "Ooops! It just slipped out!" He spent the entire night going on and on about her. He was dancing with his long term girlfriend and eyeballing the chick at the same time. When OP expressed displeasure with how much he was going on about this girl, he again said she was really cool and would be a cool "friend." Oh lets be real here. What guy seeks platonic female friendships with women who are "so cool!" "so fun!" "so interesting!" When they have a long term girlfriend? I could see if he was befriended by his buddy's new girlfriend, or someone with somewhat of a tie. But this is literally a brand new woman, most likely single, coming completely out of left field. The kid pretty much sounds like he had an entire galaxy of stars in his eyes for this woman. No one is saying you can't find other people attractive, or that you can't look. But to take it to this level? I'd be insulted, and extremely hurt. 2
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