catlover101 Posted July 19, 2014 Posted July 19, 2014 A 20 year old, completely lost again... back in october i came out of a year long relationship. he broke up with me because he wanted to be single and have fun again. it completely hurt me so much and i just didnt know what to do and feel. after giving my love and attention to someone for a long time i just feel i wasted it all on someone who never deserved it! it took me a while to get back on my feet. february came and i started looking at things differently and getting my life back together, i dated other guys but nothing too serious. i sometimes did go back to thinking about him but then it would go away cos i managed to say that i deserved better. see i am the kind of person who loves caring and loving other people who treat me right and care and love me. so in april i met this new guy and we started going out and meeting nearly everyday. and ididnt wanna go too fast so i took things slow and didnt allow myself to get ahead of myself. but he started showing me how much he cares about me and how much he misses me when he isnt with me and even when i went abroad for a week he texted everyday and made sure to meet me that day i arrived. during my exam time he dropped by making sure i wasnt too stressed. he is a banker so he deals with stressful clients sometimes... sort of like wolf of wall street haha i guess.. hes 23 by the way and im 20 .. if that matters.. and recently he s been having lots of stress at work and how he wants to change jobs and he doesnt know what he wants.. confusing period so when this last week he didnt talk to me i took as it because of his stressful time. then last saturday we met and he started talking about how messed up he feels and how everythings bad and i told him are we bad? and hes like i dont know and im like do you wanna break up? and hes like i dont know .. maybe .. and hes like he cant give me a lot of time and he told me i deserve better but maybe in time he will win me back.. and so we ended it and a week has passed and he has not even contacted me once! i received my exam results and i am graduating and i really thought i would be hearing from him telling me congratulations but he didnt .. doesnt he care about me? what i wanna ask you guys .. is should i say hi? i havent talked to him since? the only communication if you can ccall it that is he liked my status on fb that i am graduating thats it .. should i move on? please help feeling completely shaken cos again someone left me.
lovebug_5858 Posted July 19, 2014 Posted July 19, 2014 You had the courage the first time to know that you deserve better. At the end of the day if a guy wants something, nothing will keep him from it. I know this will hurt but if you were that valuable to him, he wouldn't allow the time or space for you to move on. Yeah, sometimes guys do need time to work on themselves, but if they cared about us they just wouldn't let us go. Its just logic.
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