Rexxy Posted July 19, 2014 Posted July 19, 2014 I've never dated a girl before and I'm wondering whether I should be concerned about this particular weekend. I've met up with this girl 3 times in 2 weeks, been on 2 proper dates and happen to be out on the same night in the same area where we met for the 3rd time. We're very physical with each other (kissing, holding hands) but no sex yet. Anyway I asked her what she was doing this weekend and she said "she has a farewell party on friday and her best friends 21st on the saturday but not sure if she'll go to either because she's sick". I said I would like to take her out and she said "yeah I'd really like that" But she cant do anything on friday because of the farewell which is fair enough, so I said "Let me know when you're free" and she said "Yeah sure will do xx" I know she's going to the party and I'm just wondering if I should care that she never invited me to come with her to her best friends 21st house party on the saturday or hasn't messaged me since that Thursday when we talked. I've never dated so I'm not sure if I'm expecting too much. Any advice?
morrowrd Posted July 19, 2014 Posted July 19, 2014 You've only been on three dates, so you honestly aren't in the position yet where she is probably comfortable bringing you into "her world." Have patience and go with the flow, let her lead you into her world at her pace. 3
Author Rexxy Posted July 19, 2014 Author Posted July 19, 2014 You've only been on three dates, so you honestly aren't in the position yet where she is probably comfortable bringing you into "her world." Have patience and go with the flow, let her lead you into her world at her pace. Okay. I'm been really patient but was just really curious about this particular event but I suppose you're right. 1
Assasda Posted July 19, 2014 Posted July 19, 2014 The worst thing is sneaking in. The needy entitlements are sneaking into you man. Dont do that. Just let the girl be, and live your own life. What I recommend is that you date other girls, either that, or do something else productive with your time, but dont ever think that youre entitled to go anyplace with her, or do something with her just because youre there. She's her own person, youre yours
Author Rexxy Posted July 19, 2014 Author Posted July 19, 2014 Maybe the reason why she has not contacted you is because she is sick, sometimes when people are sick they do not want to talk to anyone, give her a few more days. She said she wants to go out with you so that's a good thing, just give her a little time. Also if she doesn't invite you to those gatherings don't worry it's new, if it gets more serious she will invite you to other events in the future, go luck! Ok I'll just leave it for now and wait for her to respond. I don't have the best patience but I'll taker her word for it. Thanks for the help.
Author Rexxy Posted July 19, 2014 Author Posted July 19, 2014 The worst thing is sneaking in. The needy entitlements are sneaking into you man. Dont do that. Just let the girl be, and live your own life. What I recommend is that you date other girls, either that, or do something else productive with your time, but dont ever think that youre entitled to go anyplace with her, or do something with her just because youre there. She's her own person, youre yours You're right they're starting to sneak in and it's getting the better of me. I don't feel right dating other girls just yet because I'm new to dating and I know it'll feel wrong at this point. But I'll do something more productive in the mean time. And I'll make sure that I stop thinking I'm entitled to go anywhere with her. Like I said, I'm only new to dating and I'm still figuring out boundaries, subtle signs of interest, honesty, and most importantly developing patience for these women.
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