lovebugg Posted July 19, 2014 Posted July 19, 2014 I have been with my boyfriend, well currently ex, for going on six years. We have been together since high school. He is also the father of my son. Well the story goes like this; yes we have been together for a very long time, but sometimes I feel like it is not healthy for either of us. I cheated on him the first year that we were together with my ex boyfriend. Since then his is the only man that I have been with, but I cant say the same for him. He has been cheating on me and talking to other girls basically the whole relationship. Well "he says" since he found out that I cheated on him. At first, I let it go because I felt really bad for even cheating on him. So I let him cheat on me, honestly i thought it he would get it out of his system. I know it sounds crazy. I kept letting him use the excuse of me cheating to account for his actions. But here we are going on six years and i honestly cant take it anymore. I would love to do the No contact thing , but that's never going to happen because of the fact that we have a child together. i love this man so much, but I am so tired of going through this. He is my best friend and is one of the only people that knows EVERYTHING about me and what I've been through. He says he swears he will make changes but he says that all the time. Is it time for me to just let go ??
flight E Posted July 19, 2014 Posted July 19, 2014 I think you the only one that can make this decision. You the only one that knows the details of your RS but if you want an opinion based on just what you have written, I will say let him go 1
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