somedude81 Posted July 19, 2014 Posted July 19, 2014 What is your problem with chubby girls? I'm just not attracted to them, and I get annoyed when people say men should settle for them.
Anela Posted July 20, 2014 Posted July 20, 2014 And here I thought they were partnering with a whole person, instead of a waistline and chest. It's too easy to get caught up in the silliness of these threads, and it only really strikes me when I'm dealing with a big loss: what a waste of time this is. It's a distraction, but an annoying one. 1
jay1983 Posted July 20, 2014 Posted July 20, 2014 (edited) Women are generally their own worst critics. Most guys I know will be attracted to a girl with only one good feature out of the 3 I named. I used to go out with a girl who has in a really bad car accident as a young girl. As a result, she had a scar on her nose for the rest of her life. She always obsessed over that scar like it made her ugly. I thought she was gorgeous. Once I was waiting for my car in the lounge at the carwash. A girl walks in late 20's early 30's, attractive, kinda thick, (curvy women can really pull off a little extra) knee length skirt, heels, professionally dressed, classy but simple. She had what looked like second degree or burns allover her body. It didn't bother me at all. I struck up a conversation and had a rather long chat with her. No cigar, said she was taken, but none the less. Edited July 20, 2014 by jay1983 1
SmartDude Posted July 20, 2014 Posted July 20, 2014 What men find attractive depends on what men LEARN to find attractive. In the eastern countries chubby girls are the ones who take all the attention. How about the african women who are walking around half naked? Would any western man even look at one of them, their boobs on their belly? But men there are attracted by them. Also some decades ago shapes like Monroe were what a man wanted. Suddenly Twingy launched a new era. A nice article to read. Almost all men when asked will require a fit girl to date. Though in real life they choose the chubby, overweight girls who make them happy. Stereotypes are only for the magazines. Young women should stop obsessing about their looks cause many men will in their lives find them attractive. They should start caring about making their mind more "beautiful" instead, as this is the rarity these days. Model looking girls are everywhere, we are lacking smart and honest women. I recently encountered a black woman who was "thick". She had such a groove going on, I couldn't keep my eyes of her. I mean ya white people helped society by figuring out science and how to build pianos and technical stuff that white people are good for. But when you need to get your groove on...Im sorry but you just need black people for that. There is no substitute. 3
Trane Posted July 20, 2014 Posted July 20, 2014 Truthfully it varies. There are days where I see and think nothing else but T and A. Other days it could be the combination of what she's wearing, her make-up if any, and the accessories she chooses. I think your wrong about the face but not entirely. Sometmes you remember a pretty face more than the body. Waist to hip ratio is what I honestly pay attention to the most regardless of my mood or whatever time of day it is.
SummerDreams Posted July 20, 2014 Posted July 20, 2014 I strongly disagree with you. Nobody taught me what to find attractive in a woman. My preferences developed naturally. Here's a simple reason to explain why Polynesian men are attracted to big women and why African men are attracted to the half naked boob sagging women; those are the women that are around them and that they grew up with. The vast majority of men naturally prefer the woman that are around them. If I grew up in Samoa, I'd most likely prefer the really curvy women and if I grew up in Japan, I'd most likely prefer the really thin, small busted Asian women. Simply because those are the type of women that live there. Since I'm a white guy who grew up in California, it's perfectly natural for me to prefer thin white women with big breasts. Exactly what I said. That men learn to have specific preferences. You said the same thing as I did, how come you said you disagree?
Emilia Posted July 20, 2014 Posted July 20, 2014 However, where I think you are right is simply that while I notice all these things by default, I tend to override it because the package overall is appealing. On a physical level at least. If she is intelligent and stimulates mentally, it boosts everything else tenfold. I think it's all about sexiness. And that's not the same as sluttiness. Another poster on the next page made a comment about a black woman having 'her groove on' and I think there is a point, you see this in London all the time. Many attractive white women worried about controlling every aspect of their appearance, hiding what they don't think is exactly what it should look like, while black ladies showing off their bodies regardless. I think attractive is a sexually confident woman. Not one that diets herself within and inch of her life and complains about every centrimetre of 'extra fat'. 2
Fitguyinfl Posted July 20, 2014 Posted July 20, 2014 I don't get hung so hung up with the face. She can't have fallen off the ugly tree, but I do look at the overall curves of a woman. I don't like super thin and I don't like getting into overweight territory. She has to dress nice and have nice teeth. Other than that, a really sweet personality and intelligence is super attractive in my book!
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