GS7cz Posted July 19, 2014 Posted July 19, 2014 you may laugh at me but I'm 2 years attracted with this guy, I really don't know him, but I really know myself well, its sounds weird but we only talk through phone and worst its just all about business, every girl in our workplace is fascinated by him, who's not? he's independent, thoughtful and kind. He doesn't know me that's what i believe then one day he sends me a friend request in facebook. until now i haven't accept it, I'm afraid that I'll get hopes that he might likes me too if i did. I'm afraid to become too greedy.. i don't know what to think and do, please send me an advice.
Author GS7cz Posted July 19, 2014 Author Posted July 19, 2014 you may laugh at me but I'm 2 years attracted with this guy, I really don't know him, but I really know myself well, its sounds weird but we only talk through phone and worst its just all about business, every girl in our workplace is fascinated by him, who's not? he's independent, thoughtful and kind. He doesn't know me that's what i believe then one day he sends me a friend request in facebook. until now i haven't accept it, I'm afraid that I'll get hopes that he might likes me too if i did. I'm afraid to become too greedy.. i don't know what to think and do, please send me an advice.
Assasda Posted July 19, 2014 Posted July 19, 2014 Well right now, In your mind, this guy is not a real guy. He's a fantasy guy, because you know nothing about him. You like the fantasy. So what you want to do is get to know the guy for the real guy he is, his faults, his inadequacies, and so fourth. You can start by accepting his friend request, and getting the fantasy of him out of your head 2
Author GS7cz Posted July 21, 2014 Author Posted July 21, 2014 Assasda : thanks! that's perfectly true.. maybe that was just nothing but coincidence
angel.eyes Posted July 21, 2014 Posted July 21, 2014 Okay. Well, let's take a look at your options-- Respond to his friend request and begin the process of communicating and getting to know each other.Ignore the request because it was pure "coincidence"...and continue the unilateral fantasy for another 2+ years?Other choices? What do you ultimately want out of this? How do you propose getting there? Pining away in oblivion seems a little pointless, don't you think? 1
Author GS7cz Posted July 22, 2014 Author Posted July 22, 2014 Thanks for that, I already accept the friend request yesterday Just feels like I don't know what I'm thinking, but I'm very grateful that you've given me an honest advice.. haha I think I'm crazy in some point.. am I still normal?
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