ForHer Posted July 18, 2014 Posted July 18, 2014 Back story summed up. We had a baby after a long term relationship He left when she was 6 weeks (still co parent) Dated another girl for a week that just started at his work after we broke up so he didn't know her before. Broke up with her. I begged, cried the first month This month I've been more control of my emotions Well now he's texting me more. Sticking around to talk during switch off. Talked once of still paying child support even if we get back together. Think he's second guessing leaving and thinking of conning back ? Realizing the grass isn't greener, or am I being played and making sure I'm still a option.
preraph Posted July 18, 2014 Posted July 18, 2014 Not sure where you live, but if you're in the US, you need to google how to file for child support or get a lawyer to do it because he doesn't need to agree to it. Nowadays, you don't even have to see him to get the check. You just file for it, the state garnishes his wages and they cut you the check, not him. If you keep "playing nice" hoping he'll come back, you're just being, I'm sorry, stupid. Lots of guys bail once kids come, even married ones. Whether he decides to come back or you decide you want someone who bailed on you like that is a totally separate matter from the child support unless you don't live in the US.
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