mtber75 Posted July 18, 2014 Posted July 18, 2014 I met this great outgoing woman during a July 4 party and we got along great. I texted her after the party and she seem pretty excited to meet up with me again. BUT she said that she is not looking for a relationship right now because she is moving next year! I was pretty disappointed. I told her we can just hang out than. I don't mind because she seem pretty fun to hang out with. After that she started getting really flirtatious with me A LOT via text like what kind of a woman you like and your such a funny man (lots of emoticons)? I ask her to just hang out with me one weekend but she said that she was sick. She did offer an alternative date following week. I said OK. When the time almost came for us to hang out the next week she said OH I forgot to tell you, its dance night? So I figured she wanted me to go so I said it looks fun. She got excited and told me anyone can do it and there are cheap dance lessons at the club so you don't need to be nervous. She than texted me say that Oh did I mention that my dance partner will be there too.... I told her I don't mind since its a big dance club. Is it just me or is this woman Miss Xbox (full of games).... Why would she do this if we just going to hang out as friends as she initially mentioned?
HappyLove Posted July 18, 2014 Posted July 18, 2014 Sounds like your wasting your time. In the end she's moving anyway. Why couldn't she invite you to dinner or something? She's not that into you.
Diezel Posted July 18, 2014 Posted July 18, 2014 Cancel that. Don't go. You are setting yourself up for disappointment here.
pteromom Posted July 18, 2014 Posted July 18, 2014 She wants to do you, but when she's not actually horny, she's unsure if that is a wise choice. Go dance. Flirt like crazy. If you play your cards right, she'll be an FWB until she moves.
Author mtber75 Posted July 18, 2014 Author Posted July 18, 2014 She wants to do you, but when she's not actually horny, she's unsure if that is a wise choice. Go dance. Flirt like crazy. If you play your cards right, she'll be an FWB until she moves. I did go dancing with her. She was in the more intermediate group so I didn't get to dance with her. But in between songs, she would try to egg me to dance with her which I was too chicken **** to do (I'm beyond bad)! Her dance partner wasn't threatening at all (slight gayish) and was pretty cool so I just watch them dance while I was sitting back and flirting with a few non dancing ladies there LOL! It was a fun night! I did walk her back to her car in the evenings end. She texted me that night saying that I hope I had fun and wanted to hang out again. That's exactly my thought, if I play my cards right she'll be an FWB which I don't mind!
GemmaUK Posted July 18, 2014 Posted July 18, 2014 Then go for FWB if you want to. Just beware your head...don't get your head and heart involved. She sounds like a liability on that score. Plus she has said she is moving anyway.
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