Lyn77 Posted July 18, 2014 Posted July 18, 2014 So my BF texted me last night that he couldn't call me at all, or all the next day either, because he was going on a "Night Hunt"...We had plans to talk on phone and see each other as well. WTH is a Night Hunt? We are in our 30's for goodness sake!!! I somehow knew right away, that meant he was cheating. Well he did not call me that night or at all the next day (which is unusual) I did not call him/or text him either. He finally rang my phone two days later, late afternoon. I did not answer. I decided to go COMPLETE NO CONTACT to get this guy out of my life once and for all! I need some feedback though, what do you think a "night hunt" is? I've googled to no avail Do you think I made the right choice? What do you do when your GF or BF does something totally out of character like this?
irresolute Posted July 18, 2014 Posted July 18, 2014 why didn't you ask him before making your own conclusions?
TigerLilly78 Posted July 18, 2014 Posted July 18, 2014 Well considering the smiley face on your opening post and the strange content ide say this is a wind up thread cause your right "people in their 30s" just don't act like you have described unless there is allot more your leaving out..
Author Lyn77 Posted July 18, 2014 Author Posted July 18, 2014 Well considering the smiley face on your opening post and the strange content ide say this is a wind up thread cause your right "people in their 30s" just don't act like you have described unless there is allot more your leaving out.. Well, of course there is a lot I am leaving out..about our past that is. We've been together a while, broken up 3 times before. This time we've been together several months, no issues. Then out of the blue, he does this? No, I didn't ask him because my gut told me he was cheating. I figured this might really signify the end to our relationship.
emotionalMess Posted July 18, 2014 Posted July 18, 2014 Dumb question but is this guy a hunter? I have done night fishing many times. Does he hunt animals at all? He Could have been in remote location without a signal. Please don't say yes he is a hunter because if he is, you will have to bury your head in the sand for a bit. 1
Author Lyn77 Posted July 18, 2014 Author Posted July 18, 2014 Dumb question but is this guy a hunter? I have done night fishing many times. Does he hunt animals at all? Please don't say yes. Hell no! LOL That would be a logical answer, right? He usually goes to bed early and wakes up early, he's never stayed out all night since I met him.. No, he does not hunt. He lives in a big city. He doesn't own any hunting gear,nothing of the sort. Maybe he expected me to ask...or maybe he is trying to end our relationship the typical "male" way, acting so odd that I ignore him. Easy break up for him
emotionalMess Posted July 18, 2014 Posted July 18, 2014 Just in case. Don't freak out before you know the facts. Say for example this was some sort of recreational activity. What do you think he is thinking about your reaction?
TigerLilly78 Posted July 18, 2014 Posted July 18, 2014 I still don't understand why you don't just ask him? instead of assuming the worst..
hasaquestion Posted July 18, 2014 Posted July 18, 2014 Maybe ask him how many beavers he caught, and watch for his reaction?
TigerLilly78 Posted July 18, 2014 Posted July 18, 2014 To me "night hunt" is a reference to a night time hunting trip the op says he doesn't hunt but maybe he has friends who do? and he got invited on a over night trip..I don't know to call your gf and tell her your going out to cheat for next few nights is just not logical no guy is going to do that even a cheater..
Elle1975 Posted July 18, 2014 Posted July 18, 2014 I looked it up and found "prowling for girls". Who knows? Ask him?
leavesonautumn Posted July 18, 2014 Posted July 18, 2014 I'm sensing a lot of communication issues here, hence the on/off relationship. Maybe you haven't been feeling this relationship for a while and this gave you an excuse to get out. There's literally no way to advise you on what to do because you don't even know what he's done at this point. Maybe you jumped the gun and assumed the worst? Did he cheat on you in the past?
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