Atticus9292012 Posted July 18, 2014 Posted July 18, 2014 There is this guy I know through friends that I have been interested in for a little while. There was always chemistry, but I thought he was seeing someone and well he is moving away in a couple of weeks so I never really thought much of it. Well, I went to a party this past Sunday and we ended up hanging out the whole time. He told he wasn't seeing anyone. We grabbed dinner after the party and then I spent the night with him. He said several times during dinner Sunday that he wished he had gotten to know me sooner. He told me I seem "so real and legit." He kept holding my hands and leaning across the table and kissing me. I kept telling him to not worry about it and lets just enjoy each others company while he is still here. Well, we text all day Monday and Tuesday. I end up meeting him for a drink Tuesday. On Tuesday he asked me for a date tonight. He made a comment on Tuesday that he didn't want to seem clingy or pushy so not to hesitate to ask him to hang out. He also said all of these things about coming here to see me once he moves and we talked a lot about the future. He held my hand the whole time and kept kissing me on the cheek and stuff like that. Well, I didn't hear a word from him Wednesday, which I thought was strange. I sent him a text yesterday morning with an ecard that had kind of a sexual connotation to it. He responded immediately and we texted back and forth for a couple of hours. Then nothing....I still have no idea what we're doing tonight or if we are still doing something tonight. I thought I would send him a text about it this afternoon if I have heard nothing, but this all seems kind of odd. I mean yes, he is moving away and yes I slept with him. So I guess maybe he never intended it to be more than a one time thing and I should just let it go. Maybe he is just full of sh**. Maybe he met someone else? I am annoyed because he didn't have to act all into me and say all that stuff. He didn't have to ask to see me tonight if he didn't mean it.
JungleLover Posted July 18, 2014 Posted July 18, 2014 It was what it was and there still may be something left in the tank but the bottom line is this should have been done a long time ago. He is moving away and doesn't have to worry much about the consequences of his actions. He can just let his hair down and be into you and show it knowing he will be leaving anyway. You two were having fun. Part of that fun may have been some pillow talk as well. He did noting wrong and he made no promises. I would enjoy this for what it was and what you knew it would be.
Author Atticus9292012 Posted July 18, 2014 Author Posted July 18, 2014 I guess after Tuesday, I thought maybe there was a little more to it than just what happened Sunday. Especially when he said he wanted to take me on a real date tonight. This is not the same guy I posted about it in other threads BTW.
PegNosePete Posted July 18, 2014 Posted July 18, 2014 He's moving away in a couple of weeks. What are you looking for here?
Author Atticus9292012 Posted July 18, 2014 Author Posted July 18, 2014 Why would someone say all that stuff and act like that knowing they are leaving in a couple of weeks? Just doesn't make any sense to me.
Diezel Posted July 18, 2014 Posted July 18, 2014 Doesn't matter what he said, the reality is he is leaving in a few weeks anyway. You need to reign yourself back in and curb your expectations. He should be your Plan Z.
Author Atticus9292012 Posted July 18, 2014 Author Posted July 18, 2014 Yes, I am probably forgetting the big picture here....He is leaving and I shouldn't take any of it seriously.
JungleLover Posted July 18, 2014 Posted July 18, 2014 Yes, I am probably forgetting the big picture here....He is leaving and I shouldn't take any of it seriously. Exactly. You keep losing focus by trying to figure out something that really isn't all that important in the big picture. He is leaving. Don't drag this out trying to dissect out his motivations.
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