meisa Posted July 18, 2014 Posted July 18, 2014 I went to two dates with a girl I met online. First date was good, we went for drinks, we have a lot of things in common to talk about and eventually stayed an hour after closing time (then made out in the parking lot). For the second date she came to my place for dinner. Again, conversation was good, she suggested a number of activities we should do together and she ended up staying until 2. However, we did not have sex (but got close) because she said she wasn't ready and wants to make sure I am a good guy. Now since I am a good guy, I actually told her (on our first date) I am moving out of town because of work in a couple of months, and she said she needs to think about that.. I knew the girl was going on vacation for a week with some (male) friend, so I asked her out again for Thursday night. Initially she agreed but then she suddenly stopped replying. After a day of silence from her I texted again and she replied she would love to see me before leaving, and Thursday night is good. A few minutes later she sent me another text saying she is worried because she has a lot of work to do, and asked whether I would like to meet for coffee instead (I have no idea why). I asked if we can meet briefly on Thursday night and she never replied. I have not contacted her since and I am thinking I should probably give up on her. What do you think is going on? Is there any hope? Unfortunately I really like the girl.. I guess I tend to get attached too quickly
rocketman122 Posted July 18, 2014 Posted July 18, 2014 I went to two dates with a girl I met online. First date was good, we went for drinks, we have a lot of things in common to talk about and eventually stayed an hour after closing time (then made out in the parking lot). For the second date she came to my place for dinner. Again, conversation was good, she suggested a number of activities we should do together and she ended up staying until 2. However, we did not have sex (but got close) because she said she wasn't ready and wants to make sure I am a good guy. Now since I am a good guy, I actually told her (on our first date) I am moving out of town because of work in a couple of months, and she said she needs to think about that.. I knew the girl was going on vacation for a week with some (male) friend, so I asked her out again for Thursday night. Initially she agreed but then she suddenly stopped replying. After a day of silence from her I texted again and she replied she would love to see me before leaving, and Thursday night is good. A few minutes later she sent me another text saying she is worried because she has a lot of work to do, and asked whether I would like to meet for coffee instead (I have no idea why). I asked if we can meet briefly on Thursday night and she never replied. I have not contacted her since and I am thinking I should probably give up on her. What do you think is going on? Is there any hope? Unfortunately I really like the girl.. I guess I tend to get attached too quickly Why start something with someone in the first place? I would not date someone knowing it will be a temporary thing because im moving out of town. Of course shes indecisive. I would be too. youre not a good guy for saying it up front. thats only part of you thinking youre a good guy. to me youre just looking to cache in on sex till you move away.
melodicintention Posted July 18, 2014 Posted July 18, 2014 (edited) Put down the text messaging AND CALL HER. You cannot gauge her emotion or reactions over text. If I were her I would be annoyed and questioning you by now with all the texting. So many guys hide behind it, and use it too much so women stop replying. Edited July 18, 2014 by melodicintention
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