innocentbabe45 Posted July 18, 2014 Posted July 18, 2014 (edited) I was reading a blog about how guys claiming that following these rules work out and how it's to erase neediness. This was his message: End conversations early. Cancel dates. Be late. Appear disinterested. Don't lean in. Stop trying to kiss her all the time. Don't tell her when you'll contact her. Don't say you've been in love. Don't talk longingly about your exes. Don't console her. Take days to call her back after first time sex. Don't ask for her opinions. Be insensitive. With me, I was already not interested the 2nd time a date came late and didn't even call in advance saying why he was going to be late nor apologized. I remembered setting up the date in the afternoon, only for him to try knocking on my door by 9pm. I was very turned off immediately and actually send him to hell. I also wouldn't tolerate someone ending conversations early all the time. If someone cuts me off frequently, I would feel like they're telling me to ''f*** off'' already and how they got other things to do than talking to me. I find that very rude. These rules sounds like a PUA made that up and honestly if they have to act like that's the way how to get a girl, they sound desperate themselves. If I notice a guy acting cold on me, I don't see how I should waste even minutes of my valuable time chasing him and assuming that him not showing interest means he's interested but doesn't want to be seen needy. Waste of time to me. Edited July 18, 2014 by innocentbabe45
MsSmurf Posted July 18, 2014 Posted July 18, 2014 That kind of advice will attract women with low self esteem that want to be treated like crap. Otherwise its not going to be effective at all.
Keenly Posted July 18, 2014 Posted July 18, 2014 I don't participate in or tolerate game playing. You be you, I'll be me, and we will see if there is a we. 2
kodakgirl Posted July 18, 2014 Posted July 18, 2014 It seems to me the only people who would follow those "rules" are people who are very selfish, who don't see other people as actual people, and who aren't interested in emotional connection. Anyone worth dating would look at those and think "who treats someone like that????" (with the exception of "don't talk about exes longingly.... obviously don't do that). And only the most emotionally damaged people would look at that list and not think "why would I date someone who treats anyone like that????"
melodicintention Posted July 18, 2014 Posted July 18, 2014 Sounds like "Pick Up Artist" (PUA) bullsheet. Its a big money making industry. They tell losers to act like jerks, so that way they fail at bagging a babe, and then return to buy more pathetic advice and crap from so-called master PUAs. It kills me that these guys don't see the how this advice is actually killing their game. Look up "negging." So yes, some stupid guys do follow it.
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