charlo Posted July 17, 2014 Posted July 17, 2014 I split up with my ex-boyfriend just over a year ago now, and immediately established the "no contact" rule with him. Since then, he's tried every possible way of trying to contact me for every possible reason. First, it started off with him trying to be friends, then it went to him telling me I'd left loads of stuff at his house, then he was sending me long texts berating me for being "bitter", then a few months later he was asking if we could just be civil with each other. For this whole time I ignored all of his texts/snapchats/calls, and even tried to have his number blocked etc. (which my network provider said that they couldn't do). Then, I finally gave in recently and told him that I didn't want anything to do with him and that I have no interest in talking to him and asked him to leave me alone. He agreed, then just over a week later send me a text telling me he'd had a dream that we had sex. I'm getting to a point where I'm just so confused about this. I'm completely over this guy and not upset/angry with this, because I'm so apathetic towards him now - I'm just confused. Does anyone have any idea why he's trying to contact me so much? I thought he'd have given up after so long, so why is he carrying on? Any input would be much appreciated!
rewl Posted July 17, 2014 Posted July 17, 2014 He sent you a message saying that he dreamt of having sex with you, and you come on this forum to ask us why he is contacting you?! I don't think your ex-boyfriend could make it any clearer if he tried. Stop trying to scratch beneath the surface. The answer is written ON the surface
Author charlo Posted July 17, 2014 Author Posted July 17, 2014 Maybe I'm reading a bit too deep into it... Although there was only one occasion in a year where he's mentioned anything like that, which made me think that there was possibly more to it? Maybe it was ultimately about that, though!
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