rov Posted July 17, 2014 Posted July 17, 2014 Hi, yesterday I went for a coffee with a girl I met on facebook and we had a good time. After the coffee I told her through whatsapp that I had a good time and that I hope to see her soon, she said that it was a pleasure to meet me and that she had a good time. How much time should I wait to contact her again and ask for a second date?
PegNosePete Posted July 17, 2014 Posted July 17, 2014 Ask whenever you like. If she wants to see you again then she will not be thinking "oh no, he asked me within the statutory 24 hours waiting period, I am going to turn him down now!". No, that is just silly to think that people really work that way. If she wants to see you again then she will say yes whenever you ask. If she doesn't, then she will say no, irrespective if you wait the "perfect" time later.
Gaeta Posted July 17, 2014 Posted July 17, 2014 You could have asked her for a second date right there when you communicated after first coffee-date. We are Thursday, I think it's time you make an invitation for the weekend. 1
Omei Posted July 17, 2014 Posted July 17, 2014 The sooner you ask the more clear the connection is The longer you wait the connection will be in question. 2
Elle1975 Posted July 17, 2014 Posted July 17, 2014 Hi, yesterday I went for a coffee with a girl I met on facebook and we had a good time. After the coffee I told her through whatsapp that I had a good time and that I hope to see her soon, she said that it was a pleasure to meet me and that she had a good time. How much time should I wait to contact her again and ask for a second date? Ask her out today for Saturday, why wait? Just set up something light and fun, see if she's interested.
d0nnivain Posted July 17, 2014 Posted July 17, 2014 You can wait as little or as long as you are comfortable. There are no rules. As others have said, the more time that passes the more she will doubt that you like her.
Author rov Posted July 17, 2014 Author Posted July 17, 2014 I asked her out on saturday and she told me is going on vacation to houston. So I don't know if it should be better till she contacts me again
Gaeta Posted July 18, 2014 Posted July 18, 2014 I asked her out on saturday and she told me is going on vacation to houston. So I don't know if it should be better till she contacts me again And you just left it at that? Why not ask right away when she was free after her vacation.
Author rov Posted July 18, 2014 Author Posted July 18, 2014 Yesterday I sent her a text saying good night ande she didn't replied until today in the morning, she apologized that she couldn't respond to me yesterday because she fell asleep. She wished me a nice day, and I responded that I wish her a nice friday too. Would it be a good idea to wait her to contact me?, or should I contact her again. She is going on vacation tomorrow and she gets back till next friday
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