Author JimmyWeezy Posted July 18, 2014 Author Posted July 18, 2014 It has been two weeks and you are hurting, as most people do. In saying you need to do something, you have - a lot more than most would have in two weeks such as moving, reading, going out, and its all not helping....so how would this be any different? - Do what you want to do, but no matter you can not escape the inevitable so if you expect it to make you feel better don't get your hopes up. Just a thought - maybe you should try working on yourself during this time and figure out some of the problems you might have brought into the relationship. Done that too
emotionalMess Posted July 18, 2014 Posted July 18, 2014 Okay fine. I'll take one for the team and be the rebound sex. Oh wait you are in Italy - 6,212 miles away from me? Damn! Never mind... Really though I can get laid any day of the week but I do not try because I know I am not whole yet. I have a lot to work on before I'm ready and I am 7+ months into breakup. I think it will just complicate matters and take away from my main objective which is better self-awareness and self-improvement and ultimately self-love. Only one person can fill the self-love void which currently exists for me: ME! If you seek any of this, work on those things first. If you already adore yourself and just want a little nookie - go for it. 1
music_and_poetry Posted July 18, 2014 Posted July 18, 2014 Okay fine. I'll take one for the team and be the rebound sex. Oh wait you are in Italy - 6,212 miles away from me? Damn! Never mind.... Wow @emotionalMess you are officially amazing. I almost want rebound sex with you! Lol 1
leoc1973 Posted July 18, 2014 Posted July 18, 2014 I had an ex break up with me. She told me to move on. she lost feelings she "needed to do her" I even talked to her sister and she told me that I had zero chance. Anyway to make a long story short. I had a couple one night stands. A month later ex came back telling me she made the biggest mistake of her life. She said she would do anything to have me back. bla bla bla... anyway we got back together and I figured she had slept with someone else so who cares but she had let her bush grow all sorts of out of control. She was very neat and clean so I knew she hadn't slept with anyone and I felt horrible. I know the breakup was on her so I shouldn't have but I still did. I actually lied to her and told her I hadn't been with anyone else. I never cheated on her or even thought about it but I felt like I had. Oh and even though I am a man. After sex with the other girls I only missed my ex 10 times more. Made me feel really empty inside. Even though they were very high quality girls I still felt bad afterwords. I know the saying the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else but I don't think its even close to the truth. Just because there is a saying about something doesn't make it true. during my breakup I had a female friend who was going through a breakup too. She had been with 2 guys her whole life and she was 35. When her ex dumped her she must have slept with like 10 guys. She called me crying the next day all the time. Her ex came back to her and she was honest with him and he couldn't even look at her again. Called her dirty and a whole lot more really bad names. She still breaks down to me about her mistakes.
Author JimmyWeezy Posted July 18, 2014 Author Posted July 18, 2014 I had an ex break up with me. She told me to move on. she lost feelings she "needed to do her" I even talked to her sister and she told me that I had zero chance. Anyway to make a long story short. I had a couple one night stands. A month later ex came back telling me she made the biggest mistake of her life. She said she would do anything to have me back. bla bla bla... anyway we got back together and I figured she had slept with someone else so who cares but she had let her bush grow all sorts of out of control. She was very neat and clean so I knew she hadn't slept with anyone and I felt horrible. I know the breakup was on her so I shouldn't have but I still did. I actually lied to her and told her I hadn't been with anyone else. I never cheated on her or even thought about it but I felt like I had. Oh and even though I am a man. After sex with the other girls I only missed my ex 10 times more. Made me feel really empty inside. Even though they were very high quality girls I still felt bad afterwords. I know the saying the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else but I don't think its even close to the truth. Just because there is a saying about something doesn't make it true. during my breakup I had a female friend who was going through a breakup too. She had been with 2 guys her whole life and she was 35. When her ex dumped her she must have slept with like 10 guys. She called me crying the next day all the time. Her ex came back to her and she was honest with him and he couldn't even look at her again. Called her dirty and a whole lot more really bad names. She still breaks down to me about her mistakes. I am so sorry. It must have been horrible for you and your friend. But I really see no chance for me or at least I try not to so I don't get my hopes up. But if he did come back, and if had sex with other people in the meantime, I wouldn't feel terrible about it. At the end of the day he left me brutally via text bursting out things he was keeping to himself for a while and made me feel so bad. It's not like I do anything wrong IF I go with someone else. I am single. HE MADE ME. As for feeling bad afterwards whether u lie about it or tell them and they don't want you anymore... Well, that's another possibility. And it would suck big time. I guess I need to do things for me that don't include other guys at te moment unless they're friends.
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