RyanBeynolds Posted July 17, 2014 Posted July 17, 2014 So I'm kind of new here and some of y'all may have seen my last post about me making a mountain from a molehill with something little my girlfriend did. We had a pretty good talk last night and she first asked on my story on how she "settled me down" because I used to sleep around a lot. This is my first girlfriend and some were saying to not get emotionally attached and that her and I weren't compatible... but this text made me feel great! I asked her the same question on basically how we started dating from her perspective and this is what I got Haha I think I would like tht smell but hmmm Idkk babe. At first I was really hesitant about hanging out with you cus I knew all you wanted was sex but like you said we started talking a little about random stuff all the time so then I realized you were fun to talk to and easy to talk to about a lot of things, especially school since I think I have somewhat hard classes and you understand what that's like too. And then idk after we started hanging out I didn't think it would turn into anything until I saw that you had changed a lot since high school (but still liked to have a lot of sex lol) and although you still mess around and are still your goofy self you are so smart and I could see myself..... Don't freak out cus I know I always do when you say stuff like this... But I started to think that I could be with someone like you for a very long time in the future. Then you started being more like a boyfriend type when we would talk all the time and it was different when we hungout. Like not just sex but like a couple. And I realized you could maybe be serious with someone now that we aren't in high school... And now look at us!! And on top of all that you are so sweet and although you've never had a girlfriend you are doing a very very good job and making me fall even more in love everyday! Even when we fight and argue. :love:
Omei Posted July 17, 2014 Posted July 17, 2014 I dont see how that's great. There's some fear behind those words. She hopes you've changed from your player ways and are ready for a true relationship....have you? Are you?
Author RyanBeynolds Posted July 17, 2014 Author Posted July 17, 2014 I dont see how that's great. There's some fear behind those words. She hopes you've changed from your player ways and are ready for a true relationship....have you? Are you? Yep! Maybe refer back to my previous posts... she has a long history herself!! I didn't see any negatives in the text myself... besides me being goofy lol
Omei Posted July 17, 2014 Posted July 17, 2014 well for one she views you as someone who only wants sex and she hopes you've changed if you have great, I wouldn't call her view of you when you met wonderful. she's a sport usually I give up on men when sex is there only interest in the first week ill say bye. 1
Author RyanBeynolds Posted July 17, 2014 Author Posted July 17, 2014 We met back in High School, about 3 years ago. This conversation is about when we started talking again. We had our flings in High School, and we both slept around a lot. So in a way I hope she has changed too, haha. Thanks for the input! 1
TigerLilly78 Posted July 17, 2014 Posted July 17, 2014 I agree with the poster above that text kind of reeks with insecurities shes unsure about you and that's never a good thing OP I hope you have changed and can prove her wrong hy dose she say "your still fooling around"? im hoping that's just a reference to your goofy personality?
Author RyanBeynolds Posted July 17, 2014 Author Posted July 17, 2014 I agree with the poster above that text kind of reeks with insecurities shes unsure about you and that's never a good thing OP I hope you have changed and can prove her wrong hy dose she say "your still fooling around"? im hoping that's just a reference to your goofy personality? Yup, I was "Class Clown" in High School. People tend to call me the "Life of the Party" or a Character. I'm not apathetic, though! I make good grades in college, on my way to Med School
CarrieT Posted July 17, 2014 Posted July 17, 2014 on my way to Med School Then in NO WAY consider a "future" with her or anyone right now. You have years of fooling around, dating, and eventually getting serious - but MedSchool is going to suck at your soul and keep you from being able to make a commitment to anyone but study for some time... (p.s. I'm married to a doctor.)
Author RyanBeynolds Posted July 17, 2014 Author Posted July 17, 2014 Then in NO WAY consider a "future" with her or anyone right now. You have years of fooling around, dating, and eventually getting serious - but MedSchool is going to suck at your soul and keep you from being able to make a commitment to anyone but study for some time... (p.s. I'm married to a doctor.) We both know I will leave in about a year. We are just taking it how it goes
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