mbree Posted July 16, 2014 Posted July 16, 2014 (edited) Sorry if this is long, new here and just really need some advice. My (ex?) boyfriend and I were together for four years. Things started out pretty rocky due to a lack of communication. He apparently assumed we were together, I on the other hand, was still seeing other guys and he got really upset like I had cheated on him. He still decided to give things and try, we started dating and even though we had our moments where he was insecure, things were going good. Until last summer when I found out he had been talking to another girl out of town, going out of his way to see her, lying to me and messaging her behind my back constantly. All of his friends knew and lied about it except for one who eventually told me. I broke it off but eventually took him back. He never really seemed to feel a whole lot of remorse for what he did because he never slept with her so I just kind of had to "get over it". I don't think I ever really got closure with it and ended up sleeping with another guy twice while on vacation a few months back. I told him about it immediately and we tried to move past it. Things were good for a little while until he started spending every single day furious with me over little things. We were fighting all the time and he just recently decided that he couldn't deal with what I did to him anymore and he was done with us completely. We cut of all contact as much as I tried not to but you can only spend so many days in a row feeling that ignored. After a few days was so bummed out over everything I ended up hanging out with and hooking up with another guy. We were done, he wasn't talking to me and I felt like ****. Not the best way to deal with things but it seemed to work until he texted me the next morning acting like he never wanted to end things for real, he just needed time to think. Now I don't know what to do? Do I tell him what I did or does it not matter since we were supposed to be broken up for good? He knows that I went out with someone else but when he asked if anything happened, I said no. Tonight he told me that he just wishes I'd be completely honest about everything yet I feel like if I tell him, he's going to think of it as cheating on him and we won't even have a chance to fix things. HELP? Edited July 16, 2014 by mbree
Zippy2000 Posted July 16, 2014 Posted July 16, 2014 You`re both as bad at each other at communicating what you both want.
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