How do you accept that you stuffed it up? It's all my fault

[SteakandSalad]

I wasn't ready to date when we met, I had only just been dumped (5 year relationship) but he peeked my interest and we got close for two months. I had to tell him I needed to get rid of my baggage first before becoming his girlfriend and now he has written me off. This was months ago and he still hates me. I know it was wrong to get close so early but he was so wonderful.

 

I can't cope knowing I ruined it. But I wasn't ready

 

I'm not looking to be slandered, but any advice?

 

I like him so much it's hurting i feel like a school girl.

[IrishDater]

Timing is everything and when you figure it out too late its a tough pill to swallow. Some partners like a lot of information and some dont, we often find out when they leave and we learn they preferred things the way we didnt go about.

 

I only went on 5 dates with a recent girl but 5 dates in a under a month. Hadent met I girl I liked/clicked with to get passed 3 dates in years. Its been tough when she said she's not in it 100% like me.

 

We get hurt because we feel lost someone special, someone we opened up to and wanted/willing to share with. Not to mention the time and effort. Not much can be said really, just got to understand you'll care for someone else just the same when you find them.