Shaun777 Posted July 15, 2014 Posted July 15, 2014 I have a question, I broke up with my girlfriend after a 6 year relationship due to the fact she decided to sleep with another man. She had started seeing this man she calls a friend, I noticed the friendship started getting closer and she started moving further from me towards him. She never stated she wanted to breakup, she just started being distant and making alternate arraignments that didn't include me. Once I broke up with her she started dating this gentleman fully and slept with him. I found out because she told me later on down the line. She stated he raped her and then she took the statement back. She said she didn't want to be alone even though she doesn't love him. I figure she has moved on and I am doing the same thing using NC. I have my own personal website and I notice she monitors it from time to time. I have monitoring capabilities and I notice she checks it at least 3 times a month. I would like to know why she continues to monitor my website? Since she wanted to move on then why care what I have written on my site?
bluelady Posted July 16, 2014 Posted July 16, 2014 People stalk their exes out of curiosity to see if they've moved on, found someone new, etc. People like to know they're doing better than you after a break up. It doesn't really mean anything.
Author Shaun777 Posted July 16, 2014 Author Posted July 16, 2014 I agree Bluelady. It just seems strange to me.
mightycpa Posted July 16, 2014 Posted July 16, 2014 Redirect her to a page that says "BUSTED", maybe by IP Address?
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