LOLITA85 Posted July 15, 2014 Posted July 15, 2014 So today he called my mom again to say he sent my papers for work and they should arrive within 2 days. Then he talked about bringing me back my stuff and blabla ... But he also asked how I was doing and reminded my mom I have an apointment with the doctor, and that if I wanted he could drive me. (LIKE HELL HE WILL) Anyways, what do you think ? Is it guilt (because he left me right after my miscarriage) or is it to see me ? Has been 9 days of NC so far and he was very friendly on the phone .. Oh yeah and for those who don't know, I deleted FB, changed my number and all that, there's no way in hell he can reach me, he can only reach my mom if he needs to say something. What do you guys think ? THANKS
emotionalMess Posted July 15, 2014 Posted July 15, 2014 I read your other posts and for some reason it sounds like you are expecting him to come back begging at some point. Is this true? If so, you could be setting yourself for a lot of pain if he does not. NC will be for you to heal and that's it. Do not expect him to come back due to your NC. There are a lot of sites out there that will tell you do use NC as a strategy to get your ex back. No no no, it rarely works that way. Also if he did come back, would you take him back at this point now that it sounds like you lost trust? Tell him to no longer call your mom or ask your mom to block him ASAP. Take Care.
David87 Posted July 16, 2014 Posted July 16, 2014 If he dumped you that doesnt mean he doesn't care anymore. He's behaviour does not indicate he wants you back.
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