ppd12 Posted July 15, 2014 Posted July 15, 2014 I liked this girl at college and she liked me back. She wasn't ready for a relationship though because she was hurt from a previous relationship that she had immediately gotten out of (it was a couple months long and she had a 2 year relationship prior to that). We hung out, got closer, and at times she thought she was ready (said love you and stuff), but then admitted she wasn't ready for a relationship. She has admitted to liking me, said I'm really cute, etc. Summer starts, we maintain contact but are unable to meet up (we live 2 hours apart but she was taking summer classes and working 6 days a week). I even called her when her dad was in the hospital when she needed to talk to someone and sent her a birthday card that she loved last month. However, she she feels hesitant to be my girlfriend, but said she wants to hang out and get to know me better. Later said she really cares about me, but that she felt like she was "running away" but then admitted she was overreacting. At this moment, I haven't seen her in almost 2 months. She just finished class, so I asked her if she want to hang out last week (go on a picnic), but have not gotten a response. It has been 12 days. Should I not talk to her? Maybe for a week or maybe for the rest of the summer and wait for the fall?
todreaminblue Posted July 15, 2014 Posted July 15, 2014 if i dont commit to a date one on one with a guy i am just not feeling anything......other than friendship...so at the moment she isnt feeling anything for you other than a friend you could wait for her...but there are no guarantees...a guy who she truly liked and wanted to know better migth come along and she would date him, dont let yourself be hurt.........deb
Author ppd12 Posted July 15, 2014 Author Posted July 15, 2014 Yea, but I was that guy!!! Ahh, its just really frustrating She liked me more than a friend... but idk. Do you think I should start talking to her again in September when classes start again? I will bump into her since my school has a small campus. Thanks for your input.
erklat Posted July 16, 2014 Posted July 16, 2014 Yea, but I was that guy!!! Ahh, its just really frustrating She liked me more than a friend... but idk. Do you think I should start talking to her again in September when classes start again? I will bump into her since my school has a small campus. Thanks for your input. No. I'm not ready for a relationship = I'm not really into you, so you're here until next big thing happens.
todreaminblue Posted July 16, 2014 Posted July 16, 2014 Yea, but I was that guy!!! Ahh, its just really frustrating She liked me more than a friend... but idk. Do you think I should start talking to her again in September when classes start again? I will bump into her since my school has a small campus. Thanks for your input. yeah i think you should start talking to her again in september, but just go in with no expectations other than to reconnect and see where it takes you, no one should ignore anyone...unless they beat you......or do things that are unforgivable .....even then.......you have to let go sometime..and forgiveness heals all......she hasnt done anything wrong by you has she....so just maybe,you never know, but dont go in expecting bright lights and sunbeams..just take it one day at a time see what you see....smilin...good luck.....deb
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