Trane Posted July 15, 2014 Posted July 15, 2014 Need some advice from the ladies but first here's the gist of the story. Sorry for the long read and thanks to all who took the time to read this. Guys responses are appreciated also. Here goes. I've had my eyes on a beautiful lady on and off for a little over a year. I would catch her on her smoke break or walking at lunch with one of her coworkers. The on and off reasons for my attraction for her is because there were stretches when I wouldn't see her. Sometimes a week, two or three would go by and I wouldn't see her but the attraction was certainly there. Definitely felt a little weak in the knees to go with a fuzzy heart each time I saw her. Finally on an off day, I just happened to be browsing the mall downtown and a good stroke of luck happens to me. I catch her walking out towards the street delivering a package so I followed her for a bit and found the courage to say hello and introduce myself. She was really nice and I told her she had nice eyes and pretty face. We talked for a minute or two about the usual work bits and then I popped the question and asked her if I could join her for a drink. To my surprise she said sure! Bad thing is, I forgot to get her digits, email, any kind of contact info and I'm kicking myself in the rear a bit for not finishing this properly. I also remember her saying that she changed offices so I know I won't be seeing her as regular as I did. Ladies, do you think she's thinking about me too and hoping to cross paths with me again? Should I wait it out with the hope that I will see her again to give her my contact info? Should I let it go and start on the path of trying to lose attraction for her because I likely won't see her?
Potz4prez Posted July 15, 2014 Posted July 15, 2014 Next girl you want to approach, approach immediately and ask her out. Don't wait a year. Who knows, maybe you'll run into her again... Approach lots of other girls in the meantime.
todreaminblue Posted July 15, 2014 Posted July 15, 2014 dont hold out for her ,if you see her again you see her until then live your life, absence to me doesnt make a heart beat stronger absence is a chance to live and move on.....deb
Author Trane Posted July 15, 2014 Author Posted July 15, 2014 Next girl you want to approach, approach immediately and ask her out. Don't wait a year. Who knows, maybe you'll run into her again... Approach lots of other girls in the meantime. Wanted to see if the attraction was true and real because it's not like I saw her consistently, plus the fact that we're both at work. I don't really think of making moves on a lady when she's on the job, even if it's a break. Waiting a year was not the issue. Kinda had no choice really because there were stretches when I wouldn't see her for long periods. You are right about one thing. This learning experiences gives me incentive to close the deal better. Don't know if I want anyone else right now but I won't rest my laurels on a chance-meeting again.
ascendotum Posted July 15, 2014 Posted July 15, 2014 lol. I bet you are are kicking yourself. I cant believe it after a year and finally biting the bullet, you forgot to get her contact details. Is she a courier and do you did you meet up with her at the point where she was delivering the package? If so you have some info to go on. The courier coy wont give you here details, but you could get them to pass on your contact number to her as they will know who delivered at that location on the day. or You know the office where she used to hangout for her smoke break. I'd ask those others who you still see smoking there, about her. They might know some details about her that give you enough info to trace her. If she has moved offices, it could be ages till you see her again. Pretty & sweet girls don't stay single for long.
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