ppd12 Posted July 15, 2014 Posted July 15, 2014 I liked this girl at college and she liked me back. She wasn't ready for a relationship though because she was hurt from a previous relationship that she had immediately gotten out of (it was a couple months long and she had a 2 year relationship prior to that). We hung out, got closer, and at times she thought she was ready (said love you and stuff), but then admitted she wasn't ready for a relationship. She has admitted to liking me, said I'm really cute, etc. Summer starts, we maintain contact but are unable to meet up (we live 2 hours apart but she was taking summer classes and working 6 days a week). I even called her when her dad was in the hospital when she needed to talk to someone and sent her a birthday card that she loved last month. However, she she feels hesitant to be my girlfriend, but said she wants to hang out and get to know me better. Later said she really cares about me, but that she felt like she was "running away" but then admitted she was overreacting. At this moment, I haven't seen her in almost 2 months. She just finished class, so I asked her if she want to hang out last week (go on a picnic), but have not gotten a response. It has been 12 days. Should I not talk to her? Maybe for a week or maybe for the rest of the summer and wait for the fall?
d0nnivain Posted July 15, 2014 Posted July 15, 2014 Leave her be until classes start again in the fall.
preraph Posted July 15, 2014 Posted July 15, 2014 I just don't think she's interested in you in that way. I think she sort of tried it out and didn't feel it. She's just doing a lot of pushing back and excuses trying not to hurt you because she knows you don't deserve that. I wouldn't contact her again if it were me and see what she does. Then if she wants to know why she hasn't heard from you, I'd tell her you wanted to date her, not be her friend. 1
Author ppd12 Posted July 15, 2014 Author Posted July 15, 2014 Hmm, well we never really went out and she never really had a chance to "try it out at all" to be honest. But I know that she doesn't want to hurt my feelings... and she has admitted that to me before. I will not be contacting her anytime soon. However, what about in the fall? When classes start and I am bound to see her somewhere? What about then? Should I try again? Your input greatly appreciated, thank you.
d0nnivain Posted July 15, 2014 Posted July 15, 2014 Yes you should try again when you are both back on campus & it's more convenient.
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