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whats the bitchiest thing a girl has done to a guy they dont like?

 

have they humilated anyone before?

 

also question goes to guys doing the same to girls?

 

what makes you do that to someone?

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my ex has quite the fat mouth. she doesnt hold back when we would argue. she purposely let out some nasty comments to hurt hard. I wont go into detail but horrible things. im no angel though.

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I'm no saint but I'm not nasty. My ex was nasty. Said the meanest possible things he could think of and because of that I am scarred for life.

 

I don't want to go into detail either. But he did A LOT of bad things to me.

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1) Ex walked out on me while I was sick. Called him a coward.

2) Told him no girl deserved him.

3) Meeting him was the worst mistake, dating him was the second worst mistake.

 

I said a few others, but he was so mean to me during the break up. Like he said the worst things ever. Some things that have scarred me for life well in dating.

 

Sometimes its how we react to things, more than why we say it. If our exes showed us decency. I'm sure myself and the others commented above would never have said anything if we had been approached with some respect during the break up.

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1)My Ex-Husband made another woman pregnant in the same time I was pregnant

2)He hired a house with out my knowledge time to time had sex with various type of woman.

3) He always condemn me in front of other people like I am not sexy I am not social enough. Simply he had fat big mouth with no shame to say what ever come to it

4) He hacked my emails and wrote bitchy letters to every one including my boss

5) He hacked my phone 10 times still he stalks

These were few of them from what he did to me... Met him and married him was a biggest nightmare in my life.

The day I lost my nerve I have filed a divorce case then he took a knife to kill me in front of my 2 year baby girl. I called the police I locked him up and filed a law suit against him.

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I'm no saint but I'm not nasty. My ex was nasty. Said the meanest possible things he could think of and because of that I am scarred for life.

 

I don't want to go into detail either. But he did A LOT of bad things to me.

 

Im sorry to hear. makes me sad. I hope you find someone whos exactly the opposite :)

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whats the bitchiest thing a girl has done to a guy they dont like?

 

have they humilated anyone before?

 

also question goes to guys doing the same to girls?

 

what makes you do that to someone?

Well I did liked this guy way back from Junior High till my freshman yr of HS but then he made me not like him anymore. So what I did is I lied to him about not liking him saying ''No, I don't like you'' when he asked me if I did and kept saying how he overheard me. I lost it at some point and started saying ''You looked like a rabbit, you're not a worthless...etc'' because he was showing arrogance and being somewhat antagonistic as if trying to ridicule me; I felt very uncomfortable. He was rude in front of his sister (who was my good friend) too.

Apart from that, I just didn't want him to know it either. I was very nervous but he got me upset at the same time too. He was like ''Oh I was going to ask you out'', to which I replied ''I would go out with you, IN YOUR DREAMS''.

 

He looked surprised to see that me, the then shy girl would actually reply that way and snap at him for the first time. I didn't think I had it in me to speak to my crush in that manner but I did. Then again, now I'm not sure if he was being sarcastic first or if I was making it harder by only replying vague answers and not even smiling at all when he was trying to make a conversation with me at first with easy question such as Where I was from, which might have made him unease too; don't recall too much. Been ages since that fiasco. Silly teens we were.

 

Have forgotten about it though. Since it's been a while that he's on my facebook, I guess if this conversation comes back one day, I might ask him what was that all about?

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I refuse to sink so low as to try to get revenge for anything bad that was done to me.

 

So far so good…not always easy though ;)

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My ex-girlfriend was nuts. I knew this going in, but I thought I could be the one to "save" her. Memo: don't ever think you can.

 

Anyway, I she pretended she was pregnant after we broke up and then told me she had a miscarriage. All lies. Once I heard she was pregnant I stuck thinking that I had to make an effort if this was happening. Turns out she had a miscarriage a couple of weeks after telling me. It was a lie. The whole thing was. I was sad for a while until I put two and two together. Eventually I was told it was made up because there WAS a girl I was with who actually did have a miscarriage and I think my ex wanted that from me (to get her pregnant) so that there would be that forever "bond" with her. Never thought she'd stoop to that level. Oh well.

 

The sun always shines the next day though. I am happily married with kids now. Thank God for my wife.

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It wasn't in a romantic context but way back in the dark ages when computers were 1st making an appearance in offices, the woman I shared a small space with was very nasty & hard to get along with. One night after she left, I walked over & turned off the power strip / surge protector that her computer was plugged into. She could not figure out how to turn it on the next morning & had a mini-meltdown thinking she destroyed this expensive piece of equipment. Tech support showed up about 2 hours later & flipped the switch.

 

 

So I was young & immature.

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I can honestly say, I have never done anything bad to a female. If I get into an argument or feel my blood rising...I walk away. Better to not engage and cool off than to hurt someone, regret it and possibly go to jail. On the flip side, I have been hit by females, cursed out, lied to multiple times, cheated on...but that's life. No matter how important you think someone is to you or how much you love them, if they don't respect you or treat you well...they should learn to appreciate your absence.

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my ex cheated on me quite a bit, so one night i made him a canned dog food with added marrowbone meatloaf with caramelized onion gravy, assorted roasted vegetables, i fed the t bone to my rottweiler, i chickened out after i put the plate in front of him...but...it was too late,i went to reach for it he had woofed it down said it was the best he had ever tasted....i think my gravy often covers a multitude of sins like burnt bits....or dogfood........u really do make excellent gravies and sauces....... i once thought of becoming a saucier...and just make sauce and gravies all day to cover up imperfections...i have repented for this....god seemed to be smiling when i apologised......for when my ex found out when one of my gfs were rolling around the floor laughing when i told her what i had done she thought he knew and laughingly asked him about it..it was one of those horrified look moments............my ex never really got mad at me....he was upset i told someone other than him though.deb

 

 

ps i dotn normally feed peopel who do me wrong meatloaf.......but you can never be quite sure...

 

 

i dotn humiliate people who have hurt me...other than this time ....i probably did...constant cheating and looking after five kids while he was doing so ....i got a little angry........deb

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todreaminblue

 

 

Your story reminds me of the pie from the movie The Help. that was way worse then dog food.

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todreaminblue

 

 

Your story reminds me of the pie from the movie The Help. that was way worse then dog food.

 

what was in the pie?

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It was a chocolate pie . . . .

 

 

So do I actually have to tell you? shudders

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It was a chocolate pie . . . .

 

 

So do I actually have to tell you? shudders

 

 

awwwwwwwwww yuck...........thats life threatening...i actually got the idea from a show called sixty minutes that pensioners often ate dog food because they didnt have enough money to buy proper food....i felt sorry for them and it stuck in my head..why didnt they buy two minute noodles a lot cheaper , dog food is actually quite expensive..and i made dinner with dog food my ex has expensive tastes.....quite calmly ...and i thought it was safe to do because well they lived to talk about it....my ex did fart a lot after though the farts were quite toxic........i guess he got me back by the smell emanating from him..........

 

what is the movie help about...deb

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The Help is a critically acclaimed drama about small town life in the deep south in the 60s. It explores race relations at the time.

 

 

 

 

One of the maids gets so fed up by the nasty woman she used to work for who treated her horribly that she makes a pie for her. The woman has a sweet tooth & gobbles it up. On her 2nd piece while she's proclaiming it delicious, the former maid tells her what was in it. Her own mother laughs because she knows the daughter is awful & the rotten daughter sticks the mother in a nursing home to keep her quiet.

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Bad things I have done:

 

  • I cheated emotionally and I tried to hide EA
  • I called one ex a dumb cnnt in an argument

 

Bad things done to me:

 

  • In a previous argument (see above) I was called a faggot by the same ex
  • I was hit twice by two different exes, wasn't physically painful though
  • I got flaked on skype calls by one ex a lot (LDR)

 

The last one actually hurt the most.

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I was mean one day that I was in the middle of an argument with an ex. I remember it because I dislike being that way.

 

Anyway, the story is.. I have a neighbor who has been harassing me for the past 4 years. He knocked on his floor (my ceiling) at 6am to wake me up (I since then I moved apartment), he'd leave random stuff he had found in the dumpsters by my door (like a dirty cat basket for my cat), would tell my neighbors I was a lesbian because I have no men going in and out of my place (nothing wrong with being a lesbian, but wtf of a slander is that??), etc etc..

 

The guy is just a freaking nightmare. He goes after all the females in my complex. He looks through their windows, etc etc..

 

The only reason I haven't reported him to the cops is because he's a veteran. My patience has now expired though, the next offense, I'm calling the police.

 

Anyway, back to the ex boyfriend. He knew what was going on with the crazy neighbor.. and one day he slips and mentions his friendly conversation with the pervert upstairs.. that set me RIGHT OFF. I was white! An argument followed, and he told me I didn't hesitate to tell people off - actually, I do. My mean reply to him was "if you had more balls, I wouldn't have to". He gave me a "what did you say" and I repeated "if you had more balls, I would not have to".

 

The guy was a coward, I had found that out, but that was the cherry on the freaking cake. I dumped him afterward, because of the cowardice, and the fact that I discovered he had an history of cheating.

 

If you're a man, defend your girl. That's my thought on it.

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