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Can't get rid of the feelings


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Not so long ago, I posted that I have accepted the end of the breakup and have been moving on. I have started dating and have met a few girls who are actually fantastic and am really enjoying my time being single. I'm on a couple of dating apps, and enjoy the attention, but I really feel like I'm not ready for anything serious quite yet.

 

My ex keeps popping up in ridiculous places. I saw her on tinder signed on active sunday (she popped up on my phone) and I just felt overwhelmed with anger. This girl had so much potential and she was worth so much more, but somehow got completely lost in the bull****, and is now digging at the bottom of the barrel for attention on tinder? I'm on it because it makes me feel good to get the attention, but I'm not sleeping with anyone on it... and I dont know if she is, but it pisses me off to think she might be, even though I really DONT CARE as much.

 

Is this a double standard? Yes, probably. I'm over the relationship but still hurt when I think about how she threw everything away to just **** around stupidly. She had everything and now she doesn't even really have anyone close to her at all.

 

I don't feel romantic feelings for her at all anymore, but when this happens from time to time, I just feel so angry... and so hurt. The intervals are shrinking dramatically but I'm just trying to figure out how to cope with this.

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And how do you exactly know shes sleeping with people?

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I dont. It's just a guess. Insaw her on tinder, there's no other point to be on that app other then just to hook up with people. Her friends sleep around all the time, im sure they encourage her indiscretions.

 

It doesn't matter, I guess. I dont know.

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