Brokenguy22 Posted July 15, 2014 Posted July 15, 2014 Hello guys so the ex dumped me back in september 2013. Still struggling very much. Tonight we talked I broke NC and got into an argument. Long story short ended with her saying I am selfish because I want her back.. and then I said We don't ever have to speak, unless she wants to reconcile then contact me if not then don't. SHe told me I threw toxins her way today because we argued, so then in the final text I said she threw toxins my way and thank you for doing that I can grow stronger with them and wished her a safe trip because shes leaving the country next month. Told her it was nice knowing the old her and Goodbye. What now? I am in full panic now ugh wanna cry but can't I am so scared :( Help please !!!!
Mcnulty Posted July 15, 2014 Posted July 15, 2014 Bit petulant don't you think? You should have accepted her rebuff and just said, well I tried, kept your dignity and wished her well.(For any chance of getting her back...which doesn't look likely as she's leaving).
Author Brokenguy22 Posted July 16, 2014 Author Posted July 16, 2014 Shes not leaving permanently just for 3 weeks for her brothers wedding. I don't even know what to do ugh >_<!
Mcnulty Posted July 17, 2014 Posted July 17, 2014 Say what you mean!!! You told her to not contact you if she doesn't want to reconcile and that you will grow stronger...saying you will be fine, so what subliminal, between the lines message is that sending her? You want her back, yes? Go silent for now, leave her be, the further you push, the further she will pull away. 1
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