prime81782 Posted February 21, 2005 Posted February 21, 2005 My Fiance and i have been goi thru pre marriage conciling. And over the course of the last season we discussed if some one came on to you...at wich juncture i responded with i do like o always do and distance myself and ignore them. I thought a totaly safe answer but then i got how many times has this happened , i reponded with 2. Then i got this spill on how she cant trust me and dont know what i wouldnt do. I know she had been hurt in the past and cheated on but i thought we had moved on from it. Now she thinks i cheated on her and doesnt like me headin over to my friends place because says she doesnt know what i do over there. I have never thought of cheating on her and never really thought to mention those moments cause nothin happened...but now she does not trust me (even though she says she does) for no reason and i wish to bridge this gap....but i have no idea how to aproach it.
FolderWife Posted February 21, 2005 Posted February 21, 2005 hmmmmm.....she's awfully insecure...is she mentally stable and ready enough for marriage? She's new to this thing. When I first got married, I was JEALOUS...still am..hee hee. But if something like that came up, I'd be upset for a little bit, but then I'd realize that I get hit on every day, and I flirt around with men I work with, and it's not a big deal, and it has nothing to do with my husband. She should've seen that you only have eyes for her, but what she actually saw was that someone was hitting on you. I think she's being irrational, and I don't know what to tell you that would help.
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