Mondmellonw Posted July 14, 2014 Posted July 14, 2014 I mean, he didn't said that it was great, or anything (he didn't said it but he looked comfortable). However, he did contacted me the next day. I think that he might not be really interested, but I dunno. I am kind of used to boys who hurry a lot into telling me they like me and stuff (and they turn out to be "bad" guys)... He was very gentle and I really, really like him and want to get to know him better to see what happens. I haven't told him that I like him or anything, I usually wait for guys to take the first step... But if he is romantically interested. Emhh.. I hope that someone can give me some advice. lol, thanks.
d0nnivain Posted July 14, 2014 Posted July 14, 2014 Breathe. That's my advice. If he called you the next day -- that action -- the phone call was way better than a bunch of empty words. Not every body dissects every date. You can talk a new relationship to death by insisting on labeling it in the beginning. Remember to dissect something it has to be dead. Just go with the flow & let the words come later. 2
Author Mondmellonw Posted July 14, 2014 Author Posted July 14, 2014 Breathe. That's my advice. If he called you the next day -- that action -- the phone call was way better than a bunch of empty words. Not every body dissects every date. You can talk a new relationship to death by insisting on labeling it in the beginning. Remember to dissect something it has to be dead. Just go with the flow & let the words come later. Thanks.... lol I mean, I don't want him to tell me he likes me right away. But he didn't said that he wanted to see me again soon, or anything. That's why I was questioning this. But you're right, I'll just go with the flow.
Diezel Posted July 14, 2014 Posted July 14, 2014 I am kind of used to boys who hurry a lot into telling me they like me and stuff (and they turn out to be "bad" guys)... So what you are saying is you want him to be a bad guy?
Author Mondmellonw Posted July 14, 2014 Author Posted July 14, 2014 So what you are saying is you want him to be a bad guy? No, of course not. I didn't explained myself well... I like him because he is different from everything I ever had, I wouldn't change that. What I tried to say is that I want to gauge his interest: if he only sees me as a friend or if he likes me too.
Diezel Posted July 14, 2014 Posted July 14, 2014 It might help if you described the first date. Was there a kiss? Romantic signals? Anything?
Author Mondmellonw Posted July 14, 2014 Author Posted July 14, 2014 It might help if you described the first date. Was there a kiss? Romantic signals? Anything? Nope. No kiss. (I never kissed anyone on a first date). Apart from that, he was very gentle and he was very interested in our conversation. He smiled all the time and looked at me a lot. So... It's pretty ambiguous to me. More friendly than romantic, perhaps. But it was the first time I ever saw him, so...
Diezel Posted July 14, 2014 Posted July 14, 2014 Nope. No kiss. (I never kissed anyone on a first date). More friendly than romantic, perhaps. This is why if I am having a really good first date (or what I feel to be a really good one), I always kiss. Or at least attempt to. I let my intentions be known. Maybe he was getting a friendly vibe from you and is on another forum asking the same question you are. 2
Haydn Posted July 14, 2014 Posted July 14, 2014 Hi Mond, Sounds like it was good. He could be as worried as you about pushing too much. What was your first impression when you saw him? 1
Author Mondmellonw Posted July 14, 2014 Author Posted July 14, 2014 This is why if I am having a really good first date (or what I feel to be a really good one), I always kiss. Or at least attempt to. I let my intentions be known. Maybe he was getting a friendly vibe from you and is on another forum asking the same question you are. Maybe. ...Should I just wait now?
Author Mondmellonw Posted July 14, 2014 Author Posted July 14, 2014 Hi Mond, Sounds like it was good. He could be as worried as you about pushing too much. What was your first impression when you saw him? Hey, Haydn. Thanks! I think that could be a possibility, but dunno. My first impression is that he was nervous, just as me. And he was a kind type of man... I really, really liked that immediately.
Haydn Posted July 14, 2014 Posted July 14, 2014 That sounds positive, I hope he gets in touch but there is nothing to stop you doing the same. Nothing ventured Mond.......Go with your gut, if it does not pan out, you know you tried. Nervous is good. We are who we are with our nerves. Got everything crossed for you. You deserve it. (So do i, we have both been through it)!!!!!!!!! Hey, Haydn. Thanks! I think that could be a possibility, but dunno. My first impression is that he was nervous, just as me. And he was a kind type of man... I really, really liked that immediately. 1
Author Mondmellonw Posted July 14, 2014 Author Posted July 14, 2014 That sounds positive, I hope he gets in touch but there is nothing to stop you doing the same. Nothing ventured Mond.......Go with your gut, if it does not pan out, you know you tried. Nervous is good. We are who we are with our nerves. Got everything crossed for you. You deserve it. (So do i, we have both been through it)!!!!!!!!! I was nervous, but the good thing is that I felt he was being genuine. With my ex I always had some feeling about him being something (trying to be) he wasn't. But with this guy was different. I hope it stays that way, because I felt really comfortable in showing myself as I am. Thank you again, and I hope you're doing fine!
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