Author waiting4u Posted July 15, 2014 Author Posted July 15, 2014 Hangover - got it. I had trouble this morning when I woke up because I usually hear from him first thing. I guess it's like a habit - takes two weeks to break - hopefully that's all. I did the Facebook block. Still struggling with deleting him from my phone, although I changed his contact name to "I talk complete sh*te" and uh may have taken a screen shot and sent it to him as a response to his request to "talk" lol.
BlueIris Posted July 15, 2014 Posted July 15, 2014 I changed his contact name to "I talk complete sh*te" .. lol. LOL! You're funny, smart and beautiful. Glad you've cleared the path for the guy who sees that and thinks he's hit the lottery when he meets you.
Diezel Posted July 15, 2014 Posted July 15, 2014 This thread should be a huge This is what happens when you sleep with a guy on the third date warning to women. Sex makes you emotionally involved even if there is no logical reason at all to be. Um, strongly... DISAGREE. This could happen to a woman who sleeps with a man on any amount of dates, and vice versa. There's always a risk with or without sex. I know you are hurt now, but there may come a time when you date someone better and you are so caught up in this idea that you make him wait til Date 11. It's a lesson learned. It's not the sex that did it to you. He had you before the sex even happened.
Author waiting4u Posted July 15, 2014 Author Posted July 15, 2014 Um, strongly... DISAGREE. This could happen to a woman who sleeps with a man on any amount of dates, and vice versa. There's always a risk with or without sex. I know you are hurt now, but there may come a time when you date someone better and you are so caught up in this idea that you make him wait til Date 11. It's a lesson learned. It's not the sex that did it to you. He had you before the sex even happened. I know you are looking out for the interests of sex-starved men and all, but I really think it's the sex that did me in. Women have all sorts of hormonal reactions to sex that make them attached to the man they are with. And honestly, with this one, every rational bone in my body said it was a bad idea to date him. He was just super attractive and smelled amazing. Could be "It's the cologne that did it it to me." lol 1
Diezel Posted July 15, 2014 Posted July 15, 2014 I'm trying to defend the next guy who comes along and has genuine interest in you and doesn't want to play this game with you, because the real loser in all of this could be the man you deserve who comes down further in your life. 1
Gaeta Posted July 15, 2014 Posted July 15, 2014 This thread should be a huge This is what happens when you sleep with a guy on the third date warning to women. Sex makes you emotionally involved even if there is no logical reason at all to be. Well no, it does that to you, you cannot speak for all women. I also had a long term relationship with someone that was suppose to be just a ONS.
Emilia Posted July 16, 2014 Posted July 16, 2014 I know you are looking out for the interests of sex-starved men and all, but I really think it's the sex that did me in. Women have all sorts of hormonal reactions to sex that make them attached to the man they are with. And honestly, with this one, every rational bone in my body said it was a bad idea to date him. He was just super attractive and smelled amazing. Could be "It's the cologne that did it it to me." lol It's oxytocin. It happens with or without sex as Diezel said but sex will make it stronger, faster.
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