xpaperxcutx Posted July 19, 2014 Posted July 19, 2014 Definitely taking that as I overreacted earlier this week. Anyways, I texted him yesterday afternoon, "Im sorry last night ended the way it did." He responded before bed, "Me too." We seemed to be on okay terms as we went to sleep. Are you guys actually a couple? Are you guys long-distance? The only time I text and prefer to text is with my significant other. You guys don't seem to be on the same page. You're scared to text or call him yet you like his attention. He's particularly blunt and expects you to be too. If you want to date him I suggest you call him up to set up a time and place. Otherwise all these useless texting will get you nowhere.
Author LifeandPerseverance Posted July 20, 2014 Author Posted July 20, 2014 Are you guys actually a couple? Are you guys long-distance? The only time I text and prefer to text is with my significant other. You guys don't seem to be on the same page. You're scared to text or call him yet you like his attention. He's particularly blunt and expects you to be too. If you want to date him I suggest you call him up to set up a time and place. Otherwise all these useless texting will get you nowhere. We're not a couple. It is long distance. If it hadn't been long distance, I think things would be completely different. It always has been, of varying distances. When we met he lived pretty close to me, when we started talking he literally had found out that DAY he was getting transferred across the country, yet we still texted almost daily for a month, had a falling out (when he moved, he had to drive through the town I live in, yet didn't even stop to tell me goodbye--even though we'd been texting for hours a day, almost every day, for a month leading up to it). So I figured he didn't care and we stopped talking. Then he reached out, told me he'd regretted it, and we've been talking again ever since. Text. Phone call. Snapchat. Fb. That's been it. I'm moving in a couple weeks within a couple hundred miles of him (and he's a pilot, he's not super stuck where he is). He's been aware of this the whole time. Right now, I'm here, looking for a place to live. His days off are tomorrow and Monday--but Monday they can technically call him on, so he can't really go anywhere for several hours--he could drive and see me tomorrow if he really wanted to. But I don't think any guy would drive 4 hours to see me for an afternoon? I'm almost afraid to ask, to be told no?
guest569 Posted July 20, 2014 Posted July 20, 2014 I used to wait for my boyfriend to initiate things because i suspected he wasn't interested in me and i didn't want to be pushy , and i felt insecure in the relationship. But i certainly did initiate things too, i think it is something that needs to be 50/50. If you want to talk, call him. I agree with others, sounds like a bad match. If you are arguing about these tiny little things now, imagine the drama if you forget to put the bin out or he leaves the toilet seat up?
rewl Posted July 20, 2014 Posted July 20, 2014 he could drive and see me tomorrow if he really wanted to. But I don't think any guy would drive 4 hours to see me for an afternoon? I'm almost afraid to ask, to be told no? Don't get your hopes up, it's never going to happen.
chimpanA-2-chimpanZ Posted July 20, 2014 Posted July 20, 2014 Good Lord, all this angst und pein for a guy you aren't even dating? Life is too short. Try to be friends with this one and start looking for someone nearby who you actually like (and who likes you).
travelbug1996 Posted July 20, 2014 Posted July 20, 2014 i never call guys and i get asked out often. let him be a man. Men seem to be the new women!! ugh!!
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