Grevensteiner Posted July 14, 2014 Posted July 14, 2014 Long story short, a couple of weeks ago I met a girl, we were meeting almost everyday for 2 weeks, a lot of escalation, but no sex, which was my mistake, because I was getting very strong IOIs :/ Then she cooled the relation and after a week we were in no contact...she did not initiate, I did not either (at least I didn't after asking 5 times for a date and 5 refusals, meh). After 2-3 weeks of very strong emotions I finally managed to forget about her. Two days ago she wrote to me, after a month, that she wants to meet. I said ok, we met, she came alone. On facebook she's writing like she has a boyfriend. Yet she comes to me alone, after avoiding me like hell when she saw me. I was waiting for her move during that meeting, after that whole time, but she treated me like a friend, no touching... Also, I deleted her off facebook, and she asked me why etc, and invited me again. When I told her that she didn't wanna meet for a month, she said she didn't have time etc. What the ****? - if she had a bf, why would she go out with guys she was close with? - if she lost interest and avoided me, why would she suddenly wanna meet and behave like nothing happened? No contact was great, and then all emotions came back. - if she wanted to come back, why wouldn't she initiate some contact, not even a little? I don't understand that at all. But having all the emotions back, having her back on fb and seeing **** all the time I log in, it really sucks.
d0nnivain Posted July 14, 2014 Posted July 14, 2014 You need to ask her. From your post I can't tell if she has a BF or not . If she does, that is reason enough to fade from her life. If she doesn't you need to find out what she wants from you.
Author Grevensteiner Posted July 14, 2014 Author Posted July 14, 2014 Yeah, well, I have no idea how could I find that out. Won't going for a kiss or something look..too desperate after a month of no contact, and such short relation?
yololin Posted July 17, 2014 Posted July 17, 2014 Maybe it's not important to find out if she has a bf or not. If she wants to see you. That is what is most important.
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