spiderowl Posted July 14, 2014 Posted July 14, 2014 This is something I'm curious about and thought it may interest others too. What do guys feel they really need to know about a girl/woman when messaging her online? What are the crucial questions you feel you need to ask in some format in order to feel you know enough to want to meet her? Likewise, what do women feel they need to know? Personally, I need to know whether he has a respectful attitude to women.
Author spiderowl Posted July 14, 2014 Author Posted July 14, 2014 I have found that if I let a woman talk naturally, I will find out much more than I would be asking questions. Asking people questions puts them on the defensive a bit, and gives them a chance to sugar coat things, or outright lie. When people are just talking on their own, they tend to be a bit more open about things. I'm really interested in how past relationships went for women. If I do ask anything, I will ask why she broke up with her ex BF or husband. If I get the generic answer that I normally hear, that she broke up with her long term bf or husband because she just wasn't happy anymore, I bail. It has been my experience that those type of women aren't relationship material. Interesting, talking and listening makes sense. Not sure about bailing on women who weren't happy in relationships though. I can't see anything too worrying about that, especially if they were in a longish relationship. I'd be more concerned about someone who'd had lots of short-term relationships.
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