lightning5511 Posted July 13, 2014 Posted July 13, 2014 I've been in a commented relationship for 3 months now. The problem is she's started ignoring me at times and its making it hard for us to get together. She never really invites me anywhere and leave's it up to me to try working out plans. We live in different towns so we already don't get to see each other much as it is. But now most of the time I try contacting her to plane something she ignores me and waits until the last minute to let me know what she wants to do or if we can even get together. Its really starting to bother me because I like to plan things in advance and could make other plans if she let me know what was going on. Half the time I find out the day before and I’m really starting to feel like I’m just there for if she doesn't have anything better to do. Lately I’ve also been having trouble just getting time to have a conversation with her. She tells me everything's ok and that she's just busy but I’m starting to feel like I don't even have a girlfriend anymore. Is it wrong for to think we should be able to see each other more then 2 or 3 times a month and only have conversations once or twice a week? It seems anymore it takes 3 or 4 days just to get an answer from her. I really like this girl but I’m really feeling put out and starting to become unhappy with the relationship. I'm just not sure what to do?
Eivuwan Posted July 13, 2014 Posted July 13, 2014 This is definitely too little contact and it seems like she is losing interest. You can try talking to her about it and see what happens. However, if you are the only one making the efforts, then it may be better to just move on to something better.
soccerrprp Posted July 13, 2014 Posted July 13, 2014 She's not into you and cares little about the relationship. Sorry.
Author lightning5511 Posted July 13, 2014 Author Posted July 13, 2014 I've tried talking to her about it and she she insists everything’s fine and that she loves me. She also get a bit jealous when ever she sees me talking to other women online. But thanks. I'll try to talk to her about it again when I have the chance to talk to her. With the way things are going now i'm not exactly happy in the relationship myself so.
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