LAFINE Posted July 12, 2014 Posted July 12, 2014 (edited) This was in September Story goes I help a friend ask a girl to a dance and tweet picture of that. She makes a tweet saying teamwork makes dream reality. I RT her than I notice she changed her twitter banner to Never Look Down on Anyone Unless Your helping him up. I took that personally and texted her about how I got upset about that which might have scared and alarmed her. I said I am sorry for the misunderstanding and she said I didn't do anything wrong. Since I felt bad for texting her about taking that personally I kept texting her trying to show my affection towards her by saying I had a crush on her when I really didn't and my friends tease me and say you have a crush on her. That probably made things more complicated. Her trying to figure out if I had crush on her or not. Asked her out in December told me she had a BF. Than early February I walk over to her trying to start a conversation, but she literally ran away from me whenever I approached her that day. I tweeted about her doing that than right after that she blocked me on twitter, and still has me blocked. Right after I asked her out she told the manager at our gym that I was making her uncomfortable. Recentley had been talking to her while she works the front desk. Told manager that I was making her uncomfortable by hovering around and just wanted Hi and Bye. I asked her while talking to her while she worked front desk if she wants to be friends and She says she wants to be friends, but by her actions of how she still has me blocked and hardly ever acknowledges my presence doesn't really make me feel like I have a friend in her. She is more warm friendly towards the other gym members who she considers friends as compared to me. I am afraid to interact with her cause I feel like she's call me out for making her uncomfortable again. Like two guys walk past her and she says Hi to them, but if I was walking she would blow me off completely. Than walked past those guys again and started a conversation with them. She would never do that with me. My one friend asked her if she wanted to play bball with him 1 on 1 and she said yes. If I asked her she would say no. And she walks over to shoot around with a person at our gym if I was shooting she would never walk over and shoot with me. Those guys are going to feel like they have a friend in her as compared to me. Prior to me overreacting to that banner her and I got along extremely well. Me overreacting to that and than pretending I had romantic interest in her when I didn't is what screwed things up between us. If I had not overreacted to that things between us would be going great. Any advice and tips on how I can reestablish a healthy friendship with this girl???? What does she mean by I make her uncomfortable??? And what you guys think of her literally running away from me a month after I had asked her out and told her I liked her and thought she was pretty and etc.??? Edited July 12, 2014 by LAFINE
preraph Posted July 13, 2014 Posted July 13, 2014 She is not interested in you, period. She doesn't have the courage to completely be rude to you in person, but that's how a lot of people are. I doubt the comment about the banner is the whole reason at all although it would be a red flag if a person you barely know takes personally the text from a generic cliche on a banner as being about him -- which by the way is really really clinically paranoid. You need to stop stalking her. Listen to yourself. You have no respect for her wishes at all. Although she's blocked you and turned you down in every way possible, you think you're entitled to keep forcing yourself on her any chance you get, like while she's stuck working the counter and can't run away to avoid you. This can't be saved. You've crossed the line of creeper way too many times here. You better watch it or you'll end up being slapped with a restraining order.
Author LAFINE Posted July 13, 2014 Author Posted July 13, 2014 (edited) Thread closed Edited July 13, 2014 by LAFINE
Author LAFINE Posted July 14, 2014 Author Posted July 14, 2014 Ya I'm smart and I realize the best thing to do is to just give her space and to forget about this girl.
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