digger Posted February 21, 2005 Posted February 21, 2005 Yep--me and my girl went to a movie. We laughed, we had a great time (albeit short) and i didnt once have the urge to talk about or ask about the EW. I had thot up all these questions to ask but i bit my lip everytime i thot about it and kept silent. The only thing i did was--well let me set it up--a few weeks ago I told my daughter to do me a favor--and hug her mom for me everynight and dont tell her who its from. At the end last night--i said: are u doing what i asked you to. She said 'yes'. I said 'youre keeping it secret arent you? She said YA. I wonder if she really does/or did. But nonetheless, it was a great time. Then i went out afterwards and met a Female at a pre-arranged place. I just cant get interested. Hopefully my daughter will be my new g/f.
Stone Posted February 21, 2005 Posted February 21, 2005 AWWW that's so sweet you sound like an awasome daddy
Mz. Pixie Posted February 21, 2005 Posted February 21, 2005 Digger- I am proud of you for not asking about EW! Good job! Baby steps Baby!
MassiveAtom Posted February 22, 2005 Posted February 22, 2005 DIGGER!! I waas worried about ya! Good to see you , Bro. What a great story. Part of me wants the grab that idea of yours, part of me is at the thought. You know, you're not the only one who can't get interested. Seems like my whole desire mechanism is out of whack now. My romantic engine just isn't firing on all cylinders. That really SUCKS because I've always been a romantic person. It's great to devote yourself to your little girl. And it warms my heart to know not all of us jsut cut 'n run. high five! always round if you need us! MA
Skeered Posted February 22, 2005 Posted February 22, 2005 just started on this forum and thought that was really cool what you did with your kiddo. I often do the same thing with my daughter when I just feel totally and alone and down I take her to a movie or just to grab and burger and find my happiness in her eyes... And I think I understand that you were trying to get side notes on your ex's going's on..try to continue not doing that..hee hee what happens with her now might hurt you more...I hope I'm not way off in saying that. just my .02
Author digger Posted February 23, 2005 Author Posted February 23, 2005 skeered--ya maybe lol atom--ya its tough not being able to have even the smallest feelings for anyone else. I dont know what the difference is. After my first divorce, I met my now EW 2 months later. She made everything all better. We were married 16 months after we met--never apart. Now? Could never see the same situation. My EW is a truly beautiful woman. Shes a dead ringer and often confused for Markie Post of "Night Court". I figure, if shes sitting alone at home every night, which Im pretty sure she is...Maybe theres a reason SHE isnt trying. Sense?
ready2moveon26 Posted March 6, 2005 Posted March 6, 2005 Digger- I know exactly how you feel. When my daughter comes home from her dad's house, her and I talk about everything. For the longest time, I asked where they went...who was there...stuff like that. Now, I ask her if she had a good time and if she missed mommy...she always says yes to both. If she wants to tell me something about her weekend, I leave it up to her to do. She is 4 and he is dating someone now and things are ok between the two of us, so if I did want to know something I could ask him, but I just leave it up to the two of them to tell me things now. I know how hard it is not to ask though. Good job!
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