SadNLonley Posted July 12, 2014 Posted July 12, 2014 To be honest, I get sick of listening to "listen to your heart" it will lead you in the right path. For the first time in my life I listened to my heart and soul and looked like an a**hole by begging for my relationship back to only get rejected. I had no doubt in anything we were meant to be together. Fast forward a year and he is in Mexico with a new girl and I sit at home on this website depressed over not being able to date. So what do you believe? 1
todreaminblue Posted July 12, 2014 Posted July 12, 2014 I feel that if you listen to your heart even if you dont pester him about getting back together you need your heart to heal from him.....let your heart breathe from the feelings that you feel.....slowly get back into dating dont throw your heart in the mix just enjoy the company of other guys at first, you never know what may come.....and when it does come ...let it come.....he isnt for you he has moved on .....so you move on when you are ready with a guy who deserves you...he cant see you for who you are and what you have to give ....give it to another....deb 1
Simon Phoenix Posted July 12, 2014 Posted July 12, 2014 I think 100 percent of either one is a bad thing, but if I had to pick one, I would prefer to listen to my head. Hearts work on impulse and emotion and don't think things through at all. Hearts, while they mean well, unfortunately have s--t for brains. You don't want to be cerebral to the point where you overthink everything and twist yourself into a pretzel, but going strictly with your base emotions is a recipe for disaster in many cases. You are better off with a blend. 4
love1336x Posted July 12, 2014 Posted July 12, 2014 Hell no you never listen to your heart!!!! Your heart is not logically at all! Your heart is a drug addicted. Love is the drug. It will do anything and everything to get that love! 1
sugarlove Posted July 12, 2014 Posted July 12, 2014 It's hard to convince your heart to listen to your head when something is obviously wrong for you. I find that the heart can be deceiving and sometimes blind to faults. Feelings change but in the end logic always wins.
daisydook Posted July 12, 2014 Posted July 12, 2014 To be honest, I get sick of listening to "listen to your heart" it will lead you in the right path. For the first time in my life I listened to my heart and soul and looked like an a**hole by begging for my relationship back to only get rejected. I had no doubt in anything we were meant to be together. Fast forward a year and he is in Mexico with a new girl and I sit at home on this website depressed over not being able to date. So what do you believe? Head. Hands down! My heart is a ****ing moron. My head knows this though. 2
No Limit Posted July 12, 2014 Posted July 12, 2014 Head. If you have even the slightest bit of common sense, that is. Otherwise your brain won't help you either. 1
WhiskeyJack Posted July 12, 2014 Posted July 12, 2014 These lyrics basically sum up how I feel about this. "And my head told my heart, let love grow But my heart told my head, this time no this time no" 3
Justaguy30 Posted July 12, 2014 Posted July 12, 2014 Just be logical and trust your instincts. Don't let someone else lead you in any direction. Lead yourself... If your "head" is telling you something is a bad idea it is and then your heart is wrong. Emotions can lead us down dark paths 3
FoolishMan Posted July 13, 2014 Posted July 13, 2014 My heart has got me into a lot of trouble emotionally, therefore the head always wins. However, you cannot beat instinct! Sometimes there are things that you just know is right but logic fails to explain. 1
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