iamwalrus Posted February 20, 2005 Posted February 20, 2005 OK... if you've read my other posts.... this is yet a different chick... but anyway, Recently I've been trying to figure out this chick a my school. I'm kinda friends with her. I used to talk to her all the time / make her laugh. And I think she knows I like her. Last year, I talked to her all the time, and this summer I asked her if she wanted to hang out with friends and stuff... but she works a lot... she wanted to hang out, but she couldn't. And I know she works a lot. But heres the problem... this year I can harly talk to her. I alwyas try to talk to her, but she ignores me. Not in a "mean" way, but it seems like that. When other people are around, Ill sometimes nudge her and say "wazzup..." and then she says "not much" and then just keeps on talking with other people. and sorta takes me for granted. But she always looks at me when I'm not looking at her. when ever i'm facing her direction, she does not look at me.... but when i look the other way.. she is always looking at me. she also dresses like she is trying to get someones attention... leather, eyeshadow, high heels, etc... and she used to NEVER dress like that. and she always, when i walk by her, looks at me, then looks down real quick (there have been other things too). obviously there is something going on betwween us. either she is trying to get some other guys attention (i highly doubt that) and really doesn't like me at all.... or she likes me... but she ignores me ALL THE TIME. I can't figure it out. I havent ever done any thing to freak her out or make her feel uncomfortabe. Would a chick actaully willfully ignore a guy she likes? a few others.... one time when she saw me... she looked at me... then quickly walked up to a dude and started "flirting" with him... and she alwyas starts gabbing real fast to other people when i'm around.... I don't know.... one part of my brain says "she loves you" and the other part says "she hates you"... now... one part is right... WHICH ONE???
FoShizzleMyNizzle Posted February 20, 2005 Posted February 20, 2005 Sometimes you go with your gut instinct and in this case it proves mostly true. She may have probably liked you at one time, but then after awhile she probably started hating you but not in a evil way but in a "you didn't make your move or you don't find me attractive..Hmmph!" Girls do this crap all the time. Move on to next girl that you don't have any past history with.
alphamale Posted February 20, 2005 Posted February 20, 2005 hmmmm....let's see IAMWALRUS. in my 20+ yrs of dealing with females when they really, truly, genuinely like a man they make themselves availble to him and try to get close to him and talk with him any freakin' chance they get. i don't see that happening here. looks more like she is trying to avoid you but be nice about it. in addition, i think she is discovering her "womanhood" here which explains her change in appearance.
fundamental Posted February 21, 2005 Posted February 21, 2005 Shy girls and girls who are unsure of themselves will ignore you. Not all girls that like a guy will give him every opportunity...so you could be right. However, you might be reading too much into this. There could be 1 million 7 hundred and 65 thousand reasons why she is ignoring you. She could be shy; she may be seeing someone;she just might like the attention; she may like playing games; she may not like you ...just to name a few. If you have known her for a year and she is still acting like the way you describe her, then I wouldn't put too much into it. Move on and start flirting with other women/girls. Then see if she still ignores you. If she does, then get her out of your head--she doesn't like you. fundamentally sound
Hund1976 Posted February 21, 2005 Posted February 21, 2005 I would forget about it and move on, sounds like she made some changes over the summer.
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