RonChalant Posted July 11, 2014 Posted July 11, 2014 (edited) i'm just lost as all f**k. This conversation came after an un-responded to msg on FB HER Ok guess we aren't friends anymore. Whatever just seeing how you were doing. Have a good life ME You pop in and out of my life at your leisure and throw the "friends" word around when it is convenient for you, and when you want to push my buttons which in the past you have been very good at which sadly, has reduced my presence to nothing more than a cure for temporary boredom at best. I have no desire or intention of becoming your "for moment friend" as you see fit. While I am sure their are a plethora of man-folk who would love to be crowned with such an audacious title from the great "Queen Elizabeth", I must respectfully decline such an offer. I do wish you nothing but the best and that your life is filled with nothing but sunshine, smiles, and of course.....puppies. good day sir HER Well damn. Ok. Makes me feel like I wasted 7 years if we can't even talk sometimes. Now I see how much you cared smh. Adios homie. I still think of you fondly. We were close and yes I did want to be your friend. Not just temporarily. But whatever you have a stick up your ass for some reason so never mind. WHAT THE F**K don't understand her logic, never did the 7 years we were together. been 3 years now, she pops up from time to time, we talk for 2 weeks, she disappears...rinse and repeat. last disappearance was back in February, went to see a movie, spoke for 2 weeks, she disappeared, sent me a text 2 months later that said "sorry" which i didn't respond too, then i get a "whats up" on Monday which is what lead to this lovely back a forth. strangely enough she always does this, even down to the "well forget you, I guess I wasted 7 years" every time I brush her off...EVERY TIME, almost word for word. she has a bf, same guy she left me for...so i'm confused lol did she not even get the light hearted sarcasm that is written all over this damn reply...maybe she took the "sarcasm" as me being an a**hole, i haven't the slightest Edited July 11, 2014 by RonChalant name listed
leavesonautumn Posted July 11, 2014 Posted July 11, 2014 She's trying to make you feel guilty by throwing the 7 years comment in your face. Also, your reply did not come across as light hearted sarcasm. Of course, she knows you better than anyone here but I can tell you that I see it as someone seriously telling someone else "have a nice life, i'm sick of this bye". You guys don't make very good friends. Cut her out!
scobro Posted July 12, 2014 Posted July 12, 2014 I have a crazy situation like yours.....Im just doing NC its easier than all the drama
Justaguy30 Posted July 12, 2014 Posted July 12, 2014 My ex came to me crying saying how much she missed her friend... and how she just wished we could talk and be buddies again so I accepted as I miss her too. Then I hit her up and she ignored me so I was like WTF. We talk again and she is nice we pal around and so on. She tells me she isn't seeing anyone and all this and that which turns out to be a lie. The last conversation we had she ended it with "Have a nice life" I am sure she will contact me again doing the same thing as your ex does. They just get bored and start thinking about you and wonder if there is something there so they contact you to remind themselves why you are no longer together or just to make sure you are "doing alright" its all just a power trip. I found it funny with my ex, lets be friends and all this and that so I treat her like a friend and then she tells me she is too busy to get back to me but she will let me know when she has the time. No thanks.
Justaguy30 Posted July 13, 2014 Posted July 13, 2014 As too your comment about the woman being crazy.... She sounds fairly normal to me. If that makes sense
sugarlove Posted July 13, 2014 Posted July 13, 2014 I don't think she's crazy. From a bystander point of view, I can understand why she wants to keep in contact. You were a big part of her life, 7 years, that lasted even longer than my marriage. If you think she's crazy, then I can only assumed she ruffled your feathers. If you are indifferent, then that would mean you have moved on. If you show any signs of sarcasm, anger, sulk, etc, that will mean to her that you still have a tinge of feelings towards her.
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