Bleek Posted July 11, 2014 Posted July 11, 2014 Okay so here is the deal, hung out a few times one on one, then went on a date (we both agreed it was a date and there was mutual interest), she said I had till time to catch her, and she admit that she does test guys (I read into that as playing games) to see their reaction due to past bad experience - because I called her out on this as she was doing it to me. We hung out again after that but it wasn't really a date just kind of a spur of the moment hang out which lasted all day with some flirting thrown in. After that she went cold on me. She started flirting with another guy in front of me to get me jealous which I ignored and didn't let it phase me or give her a reaction, and walked away. After which she realized that I wasn't putting up with that and start being flirty again. I asked her if she wanted to go on a date in a weeks time she said she had actually promised a guy friend she would hang out with him that week with no counter-offer. We didn't see each other for a couple of weeks, and when she saw me she kept butting into my conversations with others, leaving her friends to be around me but wouldn't talk to me directly, instead she would answer my questions indirectly - as in if the third person in the conversation had asked the question rather than me. I figured I'd give it one more shot since she kept trying to find ways to be around and asked her out again a couple of days later, and she responded two days later saying she's sorry she replied so late but she's really busy with her school work till she the semester is done (two months?) but wants to raincheck the date. I left her alone, but she still keeps doing the same stuff as before, trying to get my attention constantly but won't talk to me or initiate conversation, staring at me, trying to be in my proximity, trying to get into pictures with me, etc. but won't initiate conversation. Even others have noticed her attempts to get my attention and this is months down the line! What do you think of this? Is she just attention seeking?
Diezel Posted July 11, 2014 Posted July 11, 2014 S.S. Over With has already sailed, buddy. You are better off without her anyway.
Author Bleek Posted July 11, 2014 Author Posted July 11, 2014 S.S. Over With has already sailed, buddy. You are better off without her anyway. Kind of figured, but why the hell is she still doing this months later? Even other people are noticing this behavior. Is it just an ego validation game for her or something? The more I just blow her off the more she goes out of her way to try to get my attention.
Diezel Posted July 11, 2014 Posted July 11, 2014 You answered it yourself. It's for attention. That's it. There's no deeper meaning to this.
Author Bleek Posted July 11, 2014 Author Posted July 11, 2014 You answered it yourself. It's for attention. That's it. There's no deeper meaning to this. So what's the most effective way to deal with this? Call her out if she does it again, ignore her, or?
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