Dwayne12 Posted July 11, 2014 Posted July 11, 2014 So my ex and I ended things in April it went really bad to the point that she said I was pathetic and desperate. So I stopped talking to her since then all a sudden I get texts from her friends to see how I'm doing and they. Would say your ex says hi. I brushed it off and continued focusing on myself. Recently she kept in contact with my brother and talks to him everyday which I find wierd because when your done with someone you don't talk to their family.she asks if I moved on or found somone else. And then she's like there's this guy at work she's friends with and how he recently told her he had feelings for her. And she would tell my brother this I didn't get why. I was kinda like good for you. Then she would be like he's annoying he won't stop Trying. At the same time she would be like he's cute I'm not sure how I feel about him don't want to friend zone him just yet. Why tell my brother all this I'm not even bothering her and she's doing all this I'm so confused guys I wish I can read her mind
d0nnivain Posted July 11, 2014 Posted July 11, 2014 How old are you guys? This sounds like HS behavior. I'd sit your brother down & tell him to stop talking to her. If he can't or won't do that make sure he stops passing info along to you. 1
Author Dwayne12 Posted July 11, 2014 Author Posted July 11, 2014 How old are you guys? This sounds like HS behavior. I'd sit your brother down & tell him to stop talking to her. If he can't or won't do that make sure he stops passing info along to you. I'm assuming this is a fourm asking for help when someone has questions so if you don't have something nice to say next time don't even reply nobody asked if it was hs or not.
Chi townD Posted July 11, 2014 Posted July 11, 2014 I agree, sounds like they're both pretty young. Well, I don't think you can ask your brother to stop talking to her (In fact, I think it would just egg him on to continue to talk to her.) If he talks to her, fine. But, tell him that you don't want to hear about it. Don't bring her name up to you.
Author Dwayne12 Posted July 11, 2014 Author Posted July 11, 2014 I agree, sounds like they're both pretty young. Well, I don't think you can ask your brother to stop talking to her (In fact, I think it would just egg him on to continue to talk to her.) If he talks to her, fine. But, tell him that you don't want to hear about it. Don't bring her name up to you. My question is why is she doing this if she was done with me
d0nnivain Posted July 11, 2014 Posted July 11, 2014 My reply was far from nasty. Her behavior is immature. If you are actually in high school, it's forgivable. If you are over 18, there's no point in dealing with her & all her immature drama. She called you pathetic & desperate. There's nothing to be confused about. At best she's mean. Get her all the way out of your life & don't look back. In order to do that you need to figure out why your own brother appears to be on her side & you need to make that stop or you will never get peace. Did you expect me to say that she's clearly trying to make you jealous & that's what she's rubbing her new life in your face & having her friends call you? It wouldn't be true.
Chi townD Posted July 11, 2014 Posted July 11, 2014 Donnivain is right again. If a person has to go out of their way to tell you how great their life is, then it's probably not that great. The other thing if your brother is talking to her, then what do you think he's saying to her? What improvements have you been making to your life that he can tell her about? The best revenge you can get is to lead a damn good life! So, if she asked your brother, "So, how's your brother doing?" Wouldn't it be cool if he could say, "I guess okay. I don't really know. He's not here." "Why, where did he go?" "Oh, he took a vacation and he's in the Bahamas for a couple of weeks."
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