Rexxy Posted July 11, 2014 Posted July 11, 2014 I met this girl 3 weeks ago and I just went on a 2nd date with her. I still haven't been able to be myself around her because it really takes a long time for me to open up unfortunately. At the end of the date we made out for a good amount of time but I honestly felt as if she doing it just to be nice, I have some trust issues aswell :/ Even though i feel these things I still try to act confident on the date. Anyway, I want to know what you guys think of the texts after the date. Her: Thanks for tonight, really appreciate you taking me along xxx Me: Your welcome, I had a good time. But sorry I'm still been shy around you, it can take a little bit for me to open up Her: That's ok something tells me it's worth the wait Me: Her: You're probably one of the nicest guys I've met What do you think?
Gaeta Posted July 11, 2014 Posted July 11, 2014 haha, there is nothing to translate. she likes you and thinks you're a real nice guy. Now think of what you're next date could be and when. 5
Author Rexxy Posted July 11, 2014 Author Posted July 11, 2014 haha, there is nothing to translate. she likes you and thinks you're a real nice guy. Now think of what you're next date could be and when. Simple as that haha Why do I need to make things complicated ahhh Thanks 1
d0nnivain Posted July 11, 2014 Posted July 11, 2014 Where in that do you see anything negative from her? The only "bad" thing I see is your "confession" about being shy. FWIW, women don't make out with you for a good amount of time to be nice. They may talk to you out of nothing more than kindness, but getting physical involves reciprocated feelings of attraction. 2
Author Rexxy Posted July 11, 2014 Author Posted July 11, 2014 Where in that do you see anything negative from her? The only "bad" thing I see is your "confession" about being shy. FWIW, women don't make out with you for a good amount of time to be nice. They may talk to you out of nothing more than kindness, but getting physical involves reciprocated feelings of attraction. I knew people would think the confession of been shy is a bad thing but I felt like she deserved to know because she had worked pretty hard to keep the conversation going and giving me a chance even though I was been quite boring, not who I was. Well I'm glad women don't kiss guys to be kind, sometimes I just think everyone is against me for some reason. I'm trying really hard to work on these few issues I have. Thanks for your help.
d0nnivain Posted July 11, 2014 Posted July 11, 2014 I put the word bad in quotes because really it's not that awful. It is the most negative thing in that exchange but it's certainly not terrible or relationship ending.
BDL Posted July 11, 2014 Posted July 11, 2014 She likes you enough to get physical, and she already knows you are shy. You can state that you're shy but there's no need to apologize for it. That comes across as weak and you're in danger of having her lose attraction for you sooner than later and put in friendzone. Never apologize ever unless you did/say something obviously bad or disrespectful.
fred123 Posted July 11, 2014 Posted July 11, 2014 a) girls do kiss a guy just to be kind. has happened to me. b) one day i was chatting online to this girl i been chatting for a while. she was with her friend. i asked her wat does her friend think of me? she replied that im a nice guy. i didnt pick up on that cos wat that meant was friendzoned. next time a girl calls me nice il.move on
Bcole Posted July 11, 2014 Posted July 11, 2014 Sounds like she likes you. Keep being yourself and showing her you're interested. What made you think she only kissed you back to be friendly?
Gaeta Posted July 11, 2014 Posted July 11, 2014 I had a few dates with men that admitted to be nervous or shy with me, including guy from last night I had a 1st date with, I always find it endearing, nothing else. 2
KaliLove Posted July 11, 2014 Posted July 11, 2014 I met this girl 3 weeks ago and I just went on a 2nd date with her. I still haven't been able to be myself around her because it really takes a long time for me to open up unfortunately. At the end of the date we made out for a good amount of time but I honestly felt as if she doing it just to be nice, I have some trust issues aswell :/ Even though i feel these things I still try to act confident on the date. Anyway, I want to know what you guys think of the texts after the date. Her: Thanks for tonight, really appreciate you taking me along xxx Me: Your welcome, I had a good time. But sorry I'm still been shy around you, it can take a little bit for me to open up Her: That's ok something tells me it's worth the wait Me: Her: You're probably one of the nicest guys I've met What do you think? Your spelling and grammar aren't great but other than that it looks good. Did you reply?
Targetlock Posted July 11, 2014 Posted July 11, 2014 whats to translate? she likes you, don't leave her waiting 1
Author Rexxy Posted July 12, 2014 Author Posted July 12, 2014 Sounds like she likes you. Keep being yourself and showing her you're interested. What made you think she only kissed you back to be friendly? I just have a few trust issues I developed as a kid, I use to get bullied a lot in high school and it's had a bit of an affect on me. But now it's the complete opposite, I grew to 6 ft 1, all muscle, and I don't let people walk over me anymore. I still need to adapt to the new me
Author Rexxy Posted July 12, 2014 Author Posted July 12, 2014 I had a few dates with men that admitted to be nervous or shy with me, including guy from last night I had a 1st date with, I always find it endearing, nothing else. That's really good to hear, I was only sending her that message because I think she's a really special girl and I don't want her to give up too soon due to my shyness.
Author Rexxy Posted July 12, 2014 Author Posted July 12, 2014 100% positive. Keep going. All good signs Thanks versacehottie, you're always here to help me! 1
Author Rexxy Posted July 12, 2014 Author Posted July 12, 2014 Your spelling and grammar aren't great but other than that it looks good. Did you reply? It might be different spelling since I live in Australia haha, why can't we keep it simple and all spell the same And yes i did reply, I said: Thankyou, you're a really fun girl to be around, a very interesting person Her: Good to know Her: haha thanks x And she never uses the 'x' sign so suppose that's a good sign
Author Rexxy Posted July 12, 2014 Author Posted July 12, 2014 whats to translate? she likes you, don't leave her waiting I'll set something up soon enough with her
KaliLove Posted July 14, 2014 Posted July 14, 2014 It might be different spelling since I live in Australia haha, why can't we keep it simple and all spell the same And yes i did reply, I said: Thankyou, you're a really fun girl to be around, a very interesting person Her: Good to know Her: haha thanks x And she never uses the 'x' sign so suppose that's a good sign You're (rather than your) means you are in every English speaking country. But whatever..it doesn't matter..this girl is totally into you! Keep us posted on your progress.
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