Jason808 Posted July 11, 2014 Posted July 11, 2014 So basically I've been posting alot lately, the opinnions of other people helps me find my strength in times when It's difficult for me. My ex told me (before NC) she felt like we weren't done and that she had a feeling we were getting back together someday. Here's my problem, we both had said alot of things during our time apart and I have no idea what to believe and what not. She was a lovely girl, always kind to others, never lied etc. so I do strongly believe the things she said were accatually how she felt that moment, not trying to play games or stuff. But saying something like this is a big deal, especially when you've broken up and want your ex back. I'm in one week of NC now and it's going fine, apart from one Snapchat wich I posted as my story about my dad's birthday, she responding to that with: "congratulations with your dad". I know it takes more time for things to happen (moving on for me and possibly missing me/moving on for her). If you want to read my entire story about my break up you can find it here: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/484165-got-dumped-my-first-girlfriend Let me know what you think is going on, I need opinnions!
Philosoraptor Posted July 11, 2014 Posted July 11, 2014 "she felt like we weren't done and that she had a feeling we were getting back together someday"... what a clever way to try and ensure that the person you're dumping is hopeful and open to you coming back while you're out having your fun. Focus on yourself, and when you find yourself focused on your ex find something else to focus on. 1
Author Jason808 Posted July 11, 2014 Author Posted July 11, 2014 "she felt like we weren't done and that she had a feeling we were getting back together someday"... what a clever way to try and ensure that the person you're dumping is hopeful and open to you coming back while you're out having your fun. Focus on yourself, and when you find yourself focused on your ex find something else to focus on. I get what you are saying, at the moment I'm definetly chosing for myself. I'm going to the gym to get in shape, bought a new game to keep myself busy and i'm doing all kinds of things with friends now. You're probably right about keeping a door open to come back, especially since she had doubts about our relationship and the love (that's why she broke up).
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