scobro Posted July 10, 2014 Posted July 10, 2014 (edited) Was in a 5 year toxic relationship. My ex wronged me in the worst way by cheating 3 years ago and I took her back.Plus caught her profile on POF when we were together I actually made a profile and put a pic of her dog and sent it to her catching her saying dump your boyfriend before you try and date...lol sad.... thing it is the second time she had a profile on POF that I caught.She 8 months ago rented a room out to her ex boyfriend who is now gay(apparently) I know the guy and agreed but what she failed to mention is I am now not allowed at her house now so how messed is that?.So for the last 8 months haven't been to her house (other than once she was showing me how the inside had been painted) because he is renting a room how messed is that?She was over at my place and forgot her phone I looked at it bang POF chats with guys...lol So in March I just said this is insane cannot handle this its so not right.Found out she slept with her ex's friend who is 18 years younger and now she has a new guy......the kicker is the woman is 50 years old very hot looks younger but treated me like that I think because I have been unemployed the last year.So she would go out weekends and like a moron I trusted her.....ugghhh.Woman never drank now shes drunk partying up with these guys at Casinos all over the place.....was actually suppose to see her 2 weeks ago but she was late so I left she phoned and we got in an intense argument so breaking no contact was very stupid on my part.....any thoughts? Edited July 10, 2014 by scobro
JimmyWeezy Posted July 10, 2014 Posted July 10, 2014 I am sorry for what she put you through. I know exactly what you're talking about. My ex boyfriend did the same thing to me, downloading gay chats to his phone, liking guys' pics on Facebook and looking for gay spots in the city. I love him so much that I would've worked things out however he didn't care enough to work hard to regain my trust so after a year of anxiety on both sides, he ended things. Don't make the same mistake I made: talk to her and ask straight away: "you whether realize this is ****ed up AND shallow, unnecessary, disrespectful and BELIEVE it, or I don't think we have much of a future. But you have to come to your senses, don't just say you get it and have me find out a couple months from now that you did it again" (that's what my bf did, so I'm warning you...)
Author scobro Posted July 10, 2014 Author Posted July 10, 2014 I am sorry for what she put you through. I know exactly what you're talking about. My ex boyfriend did the same thing to me, downloading gay chats to his phone, liking guys' pics on Facebook and looking for gay spots in the city. I love him so much that I would've worked things out however he didn't care enough to work hard to regain my trust so after a year of anxiety on both sides, he ended things. Don't make the same mistake I made: talk to her and ask straight away: "you whether realize this is ****ed up AND shallow, unnecessary, disrespectful and BELIEVE it, or I don't think we have much of a future. But you have to come to your senses, don't just say you get it and have me find out a couple months from now that you did it again" (that's what my bf did, so I'm warning you...) oh I ended it in March....couldn't take it anymore it was crazy
NopeNah Posted July 10, 2014 Posted July 10, 2014 oh I ended it in March....couldn't take it anymore it was crazy Good! That's insane!
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