Jophiel Posted July 10, 2014 Posted July 10, 2014 Help! I just can't shake my feelings for my ex. I have a good job, great family and friends and would like to meet my forever person, yet I just can't seem to let go of my ex. I still love him, even though we broke up nearly 6 years ago. And you thought you were sad?! I miss everything about him. We had lots of problems and in the end I hurt him for hurting me, spiteful. Maybe it's my wrong doings I regret, maybe I'm looking for absolution, I don't know. Confused and bewildered...
SoThatHappened Posted July 10, 2014 Posted July 10, 2014 That is a very long time to still miss an ex. Why did you break up? What were your "wrong-doings?" How did he hurt you? What have you been doing the past 6 years? Have you been in touch over that time?
music_and_poetry Posted July 10, 2014 Posted July 10, 2014 Do you still want this person in your life or would you prefer to have your heart be free? If you want him in your life, it may be time to reach out and speak from your mind and your heart. If there's nothing there then you will be forced to either miss him forever or push forward in your life and find someone worthy of your awesomeness! On the other hand, if you want to be free now you need to make a conscious decision to love yourself more than you love this person. No matter how selfish it seems. If you love yourself you won't allow your heart to keep loving someone who is hurting you <3 I should really take some of my own advice ^ 1
Elle1975 Posted July 10, 2014 Posted July 10, 2014 Help! I just can't shake my feelings for my ex. I have a good job, great family and friends and would like to meet my forever person, yet I just can't seem to let go of my ex. I still love him, even though we broke up nearly 6 years ago. And you thought you were sad?! I miss everything about him. We had lots of problems and in the end I hurt him for hurting me, spiteful. Maybe it's my wrong doings I regret, maybe I'm looking for absolution, I don't know. Confused and bewildered... Are you guys still in contact? It might be worth trying to contact him. If you get rejected, it might help you move on.
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