Author lovebug_5858 Posted July 10, 2014 Author Posted July 10, 2014 Ive wanted to go on a rant about this for awhile. I see these posted almost every other day and like you said, nothing against OP, but for people who are months and years into the battle, it makes them upset?(wrong word choice but yeah) There's a lot of people who have said that they are inspired- and I don't see why anyone would be "upset" or whatever word you meant. No matter what the circumstance, I would be ecstatic for anyone who is feeling much better after struggling for so long.
Author lovebug_5858 Posted July 10, 2014 Author Posted July 10, 2014 You are such an inspiration! It's been about almost 4 weeks NC since the breakup and at times I still want him to come back to me. But at the same time....if he did, he wouldnt be the same person anymore. What we had was great and he threw it all away over something fixable! I feel our love and trust is gone now since he broke it up with me. But I am moving on and keeping busy. Keeping busy really helps keep the mind occupied! I wish you all the best in nursing school! I will be going back eventually for my BSN I completely agree with what you're saying- it would just be different you know? And thanks I am so excited for nursing. I haven't been formally accepted but everyone says that I am a great candidate! Do you have any tips for the NLN? And my school offers a BSN degree completely online (after your ADN) which takes less than a year! WOO HOO :D
Author lovebug_5858 Posted July 10, 2014 Author Posted July 10, 2014 Wow you gave me hope that I'll get over it. And you're absolutely right they're people we USED to know they are not the same ones we once fell in love with. I know for sure my ex is a completely different person now a person that I do not know. So basically I'm mourning what he no longer is so it's like mourning a death. I'm at day 12 and hoping maybe by day 30 I won't care anymore. You will get over it. And yeah, I thought about it that way too. They're just not the same anymore. I wish you all the best of luck in your journey. In all actuality it took me a year and some months to get here, but then again, we kept trying (and failing) in that time. Who knows how far I would be if I had just left it all alone. A lot further than I am now, for sure! Keep us updated 1
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