VanessaVanessa Posted July 9, 2014 Posted July 9, 2014 If a guy who just introduced himself to a girl about 10 minutes into their conversation (asking about name, studies, background info etc) asks her to lunch, could this be as a friendly gesture? The guy approached girl walking back to uni, he introduces himself, and almost immediately mentions a 'disco' that is on the following night and hands her a flyer before she has properly even said her name. The guy was nice but was this a friendly gesture or was there more interest?
TXGuy Posted July 9, 2014 Posted July 9, 2014 'Hands her a flier...' Sounds like a promoter/advertiser. 'Asks her to lunch...' Sounds like he is interested in her.
d0nnivain Posted July 9, 2014 Posted July 9, 2014 It's college. He's just seizing the moment. Half the reason he's handing out flyers is to populate this disco with pretty girls. The lunch invite is him trying to get a jump on the competition in broad daylight while sober. Not a bad move. If you are hungry &/or he's cute go to lunch.
Author VanessaVanessa Posted July 10, 2014 Author Posted July 10, 2014 (edited) He was friendly and I would have accepted the invite to lunch but I actually had a big assignment to get done. I told him about the work and I kind of just said, 'i will see you around though' and we hugged bye. The thing is then in the time and now I didn't know how he meant it exactly, I was hoping it to be as just a more friendly lunch. But now that I think about the disco thing (I didn't go to that either), it's probably better that I said no at the time if he was more of a promoter and all. This probably seemed real obvious. Anyways, Thanks for responding. Edited July 10, 2014 by VanessaVanessa
d0nnivain Posted July 10, 2014 Posted July 10, 2014 Since you didn't accept either of his "invites" he has probably moved on. He's an opportunist & isn't going to chase hard to get girls because it's too much effort.
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