Tressugar Posted July 9, 2014 Posted July 9, 2014 Why am I so angry about my situation? I'm pissed off right now and dreading seeing my husband from when he's coming back home. He's making plans to attempt to his son once AGAIN! Yes it's court ordered, but the baby's mother starts drama by accusing my husband, me or my family ludicrous false allegations from kidnapping to child abuse/molestation. Just so he won't see his kid or hopefully to get so sick and tired of the drama he'll just give up. She even took us to court to have his parental rights revoked. That didn't work. Supervised visitation do not work as she always cancel the visits or claims to not have the gas $ to drop the kid off. All the courts do is give her another chance to hang herself. My mother's heart became broken when she found her house surrounded by the police swat team because my husband's ex wife told the police my mother kidnapped her kid. In addition to previously stalking me, she has stalked my father. The facilitator at the visitation center had his life threatened by my husband's ex wife and he cancelled the visit due to safety reasons. This was documented. The court has done nothing. Due to their professional status they deemed the ex wife clearly has some mental health issues. And maybe possibly pose a threat in raising her children. As a professional, it does not look that you're under investigation most times from law enforcement. Its so bad that the police know me on a first-name basis because of what's been going on. They tell me that I'm crazy for putting up with this. And I deserve better. I hate the fact that every attempt he tries to make to see his son the police somehow gets involved or somebody gets arrested. If he makes attempts in seeing his kid I'm outta of here! I'm not having anymore police coming to my house or family's house. I'm getting tired of this bull**** and want out! I'm seriously considering leaving the marriage because I cannot take one more false allegation, investigation, cps worker, court appearance and attorney fees. Last year alone we went to 8 court appearances. This is the reason why never dated or married men with children! My husband was the first guy I dated and married who has a kid. I have stood by my husband side for all these years. All of my girlfriends and family members say I am crazy for putting up with this drama. No man is worth the stress. My husband knows how I feel about all of this. And he is sick and tired of it too! After all he's the one that does jail time over these allegations. I am seriously at an quandary in making a positive peaceful decision for my future. Or maybe I'm just PMS'ing. Thanks for reading I had to get that all off my chest.
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