Orije Posted July 9, 2014 Posted July 9, 2014 So I'm 19 and my girlfriend is 18. We have been in a relationship for a month now and there is a few things here and there that bother me and I don't know how to take it so your advice might help. When we began dating and going out, texting was great. She always gave a good morning and initiated some converations, but when we began the relationship i began to notice she doesn't text goodmorning anymore or initates any type of conversation. I'm usually always coming up with random things to talk about with her and she takes 1-2 hours or sometimes longer to respond, but is usually posting on social media websites like instagram, twitter and facebook. I only get to see her for once a week and we cuddle most the time or go out somewhere. I was told by friends to do the 3 day rule and wait it out to see if she will initiate conversation or miss me, but wouldn't that make it seem like i'm not interested? I'm always sending out romantic texts and sexy ideas and most texts back are "lol :P" or "okay :p" which throws off my conversation and i will have to start anew. I dont want to seem like the clingy type to her and bring up these little issues. Awhile ago i learned about the dating apps hot or no and tinder and i learned that she used to use them. When i asked her about it she said she used to use them, but i didnt get to ask why doesnt she delete them? Any advice guys on what i should do? Is it me that needs to become less clingy or should i talk to her? Thanks!
Themanwithaplan Posted July 9, 2014 Posted July 9, 2014 If I were you, I'd scale back on the good morning texts and full on text conversations throughout the entire day. Do them spontaneously. Keep things unpredictable. Relationships are fun in the beginning! Keep a good poker face but make sure she knows you like spending time with her. Don't smother her whatever you do! All the lovey-dovey stuff will come in time, but just relax and enjoy the ride. Don't over think it bro! 1
David87 Posted July 9, 2014 Posted July 9, 2014 Let her initiate some convos, from your op you're the one who always sends good morning texts....let her do it next time.
d0nnivain Posted July 9, 2014 Posted July 9, 2014 AAAUGGGHHH Another reason I hate texting. The # of texts & the time to respond are not appropriate measures of the interest level. Presumably as they have gone down, the person to person interactions have gone up, hence the lessened need to hide behind technology.
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